Sexual Predatorette
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- drgz0
For any age -- there is a difference between forced and deliberate sex.
If one of the parties is underage obviously doesn't automatically make it a rape or abuse, what is the discussion about?Reminds me of a news story. In Utah a 13 year old boy and a 12 year old girl had sex. Since both are underage the court concluded that they raped each other -- both were sentenced to have their names in a pedophile database
Maybe in America one can allow oneself this kind of "iron logic", but if any of you in the fever of the pedophile hunt follow the same reasoning -- you are clinical idiots
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- locustsloth0
"Girls and women, rightly or wrongly, face stigmas because of sexual activity. Men don't."
"The idea that she has harmed these boys is silly. They'll be the envy of everyone at their school, and more popular than they were before."
In these two quotes you are making a broad generalization and assumption. That is, that the boy doesn't, and won't ever, feel like they had been taken advantage of. i'll grant you, most teenagers would jump at the chance to have sex. And, in the moment, they may have even been complicit in the act, physically enjoying it.
The problem is boys that age are not emotionally mature enough to decide whether or not it is the right time to have sex. This woman has capitalized on that lack of discretion, using the implicit authority in her age and the bribes, to convince them that it was. Eventually that power dynamic will come back to haunt them and, like someone else said, they may very will seek to right that deficiency of power by taking power over another, younger person.
Moreover, these quotes are ignorant of the fact that if, in the days and weeks following the act, these boys do feel taken advantage of, they will likely not feel that they can say so.
Think of the peer reaction to a 13 yr old saying "i didn't like that i had sex and got money and presents. This merit of popularity that you see as a blessing on these kids is actually a muzzle, discouraging them from paying attention to how they actually feel about the event, rather than how everyone around them THINKS they should feel. And suppression of these feeling can lead to mental and emotional damage.
- uan0
@Sep thank you for taking the time to put things in a right light here and trying to put some wisdom in some adolescent brains, respect!
- set0
If a penis can become erect and shoot semen out, then the body is ready to have sex. Its absolutely non comparible to unsolicited underage sex with a female which is of course a completely different matter altogether. A teenage boy with a raging boner is ready to have sex and if that lucky little cunt gets to have sex with a milf, and gets a xbox at the same time, then all power to him.
- You're basically saying that a person who gets aroused while being raped is "asking for it". Idiotic.juhls
- What if a female student IS aroused? and they use protection? Peer opinion aside, it's the same thing.juhls
- It's about power, not the act of sex. Again, doesn't matter what the underage person thinks b/c they are being used.juhls
- i thought the underage boys consented....set
- rape is obviously a completely different subjectset
- What if a girl consents and uses protection? The older person, whether male or female, is taking advantage ofjuhls
- the underage person. In the law, it is considered rape if you're underage. If an older man does this to a younger womanjuhls
- woman, he is likely to be convicted and sent to prison. The same thing should happen to a woman.juhls
- meh whatever *goes back to lifeset
- boobs0
There are many, many things in society which can have a "seriously negative impact on your sexuality, your view on women and relationships in general".
I mean, that's so vague, it could include PG-13 movies, Katy Perry, reading The Superficial, or talking to a Priest. If everything that changed a teenager's views on sexuality and relationships could result in a prison sentence, no one on Earth would have enough money to build the prisons.
- Sep0
It's also not about "Is it fair to put her away for such or such time?"
That was never part of the debate.
I'm not even sure we should sent people like her to prison.
The main question was: Is what she did wrong or not.
- Sep0
"At such a young age shit like that can have a seriously negative impact on your sexuality, your view on women and relationships in general."
That was my direct response to your question "where the real harm is." It's like you don't want to read these replies.
Not enough potential damage for you there? If they grow up with the idea that it's ok for adults to have sex with children, and start doing the same? All ok for you? Not one solitary alarmbell goes off in your head?
For fucks sakes, she was 42 and the boys 13. She's in control. Her age puts her in a position of power. She has the overwhelming advantage over these kids and she used it to get herself off.
Your only argument seems to be: Boys can't get pregnant and they probably enjoyed it..."
I don't see how I can be more clear about it. But I'm starting to suspect your whole view about women/man relationships are warped, so I wonder why I even bother...
- I don't want to have a go at you man... But I have pretty strong feelings about this subject.Sep
- Sep:
what if she was 22 and the boy was 18, he looked for her, not he way around, does she still go to prison?Miguex - goes to prison?Miguex
- If the person is 18 or above, that's obviously different. With underage kids, it doesn't matter who looked for who.juhls
- That's obviously a completely different situation, Miguex.Sep
- cool, my point was that she is still a woman, she is still older than him, but the situation can not have the same consecuencesMiguex
- consequences, so sometimes that law can't be applied the exact wayMiguex
- The law IS applied the same way for all underage kids. As it should be. You're talking about older people.juhls
- so juhls, if she is 19 and he is 17& 1/2, she should go to jail w the rest of the pedophiles?Miguex
- cerberus0
^^^You are a fucking idiot.
- boobs0
You folks keep saying, "it's wrong" and leaving it at that.
What is so wrong with an adult woman having sex with a teenage boy that should cause her to go to prison? And not for, you know, a couple weeks. But months and months--if not years! It seems insane to me to treat this woman on the level of someone who's committed armed robbery, or shot someone.
What is the harm to the teenage boy? Beyond breaking some taboo (which no one here seems to even be able to name, which I find very telling), what has occurred that will damage the kid? How?
- You need to read more of the posts, or at least the notes
http://www.qbn.com/t…juhls
- You need to read more of the posts, or at least the notes
- ceiling_cat0
I'll fuck anything
- cerberus0
Some of your reasoning is shocking. You sick fucks. Male or female, it's wrong. If you can't see that they are one in the same you have issues.
I can't believe I breathe the same air as some of you fucking morons.
- SrSamaurai0
might as well get all the pedophile threads bumped up together for some of you to feast on
- ahli0
great argument boobs, fair play to the boys.
- pillhead0
Hilarious how this went on for 2 years, I guess playing the Playstation and doing someone from behind at the same time get real boring, real quickly.
- ali0
she's a dirt bag
- comicsans0
It would be fascinating to read this discussion on a forum largely populated by women. I suspect the general conclusion would be broadly the same, adult male, under age either gender, very very bad; adult female, under age either either gender, meh! where's the harm. Double standards are wonderful things.
In a civilised society adults are expected to be responsible which includes, amongst other things, not exploiting children.
- fxone0
@Sep
Girl here looks 15 dude...
http://www.qbn.com/topics/569349…