Wishes for GF or BF?
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- mg33
Curious, what are some of the things you wish your significant other would do, but that they'd do without you telling them? Something that would make you proud, or turn you on, or show effort, or be mature, those kinds of things - but just on their own?
Because if YOU told them to or hinted, it kind of kills the surprise and such, know what I mean?
And since I know what the very first response will be "saying 'let's try anal,' " start with something else.
- mg330
Like, for example, if my girlfriend bought new clothes, something cute, I'd love to just see her in it when she's wearing it without knowing it exists, without having been shown whatever it is right after purchase. It's nice to be able to say, "is that new? I really like it!"
- you are asking for a trap cause if you dont notice you are a dead meat********
- you are asking for a trap cause if you dont notice you are a dead meat
- jimzyk0
a random hug. really random.
i like really spontaneous stuff but it doesnt tend to happen very often,,,,, maybe its the +2 kids,,,(but we are super happy anyway!)
- Point50
I wish my wife would stop cleaning up my desk and stop doing my laundry. After she touches my desk, my shit is all out of order... documents have gotten thrown away, my pens are in her purse or my sons room, mail is missing. Laundry: it's nice that she does it, but she leaves it in the dryer all day, or takes it out of the dryer and piles it into a laundry basket and lets it sit; so when I go to get a shirt out of the closet it's wrinkled beyond repair and I have to spend 15 minutes on it with an iron.
- BrokenAC0
i like it when she massages my hands randomly while out watching a movie together.
I like it when she lets me sleep in, not bugging out cuz im not up when she's up. (Some girls need attention as soon as there conscious).
just gimme a humble, down-to-earth girl with dsl's ,. im good. ;)
- Unless EPL is on, I need attention as soon as I'm conscious.********
- yes that is annoying. understandable, but annoying :)redrum
- Unless EPL is on, I need attention as soon as I'm conscious.
- mg330
I wish my girlfriend would straighten her place up more, like, spotless, no piles all over. This is something I actually ask her to do all the time. I've tried to suggest to her that, more than most other things, it makes me really happy to come over and the place be perfect, no messes, no clutter. I keep my apartment that way, organized.
I try to keep things tidy, clean, smelling good, etc. and a little trick I play with myself is to think "what if this was a brand new girl coming over? what's the impression this place would make?" That's something I wish my GF would do. Clutter gives me a headache, seriously. Just as much as it would turn me on for her to just be waiting there naked when I walk in the door, my walking into a spotless tidy, non-cluttered apartment is just as much of a turn on.
I have a rule for myself: the ABC rule - Always Be expecting Company. Means that my place is always clean and organized enough so that if anyone stops by at any random moment I don't worry about it looking bad.
- girls are messy by nature i believe.sublocked
- no way, sublocked. Maybe clutter, but I know lots of women who are anal about cleaning up. Even I am that way.Jaline
- They tend to have more "stuff" though, for sure. Compared to men.Jaline
- Depends on the individual, not the gender. What I DO think is that if you're messy you won't really change. Least I won't.killthefish
- 90% of the girls i know have cluttered houses. i only make comments based on my observations :)sublocked
- Fair enough. And yeah, it's pretty hard to change someone when it comes to cleanliness of one's house.Jaline
- wow, dude, u r anal like fuck.pr2
- Ouch, mg33 - clutter's good for the soul, man. I hate mess, I hate dirt - but clutter? That's shit's natural order, man.Nairn
- BannedKappa0
Anything done with spontenaety does it for me. Unless she spontaneously fucks one of my mates.
- ********0
I guess it's those things that I can't explain but when I notice them - I realize. If that makes any sense.
Like something lame like holding a door for someone else, making a funny comment, or just showing human emotion.
Since for the first one I rarely think of anyone else but myself, I've never done number two except out of mistake, and the third is something I've never done, even mistakenly.
- I am with you. Except I do hold doors.Jaline
- I hold doors too actually. I actually have impeccable manners. Makes up for the foul, putrid words that come out of my mouth.********
- my mouth.********
- scarabin_net0
just once i wish SHE'D bring home a new girl for us to play with instead of me always having to do it
- ismith0
I admit, I skim read your first post about ten times because I swore there was no mention of anal– shows how tired I am. Other than that, I have no comment since ATM I have nobody to share a bed with. *tear
- matt310
2 girls at the same time
- Llyod0
I'd wish for a GF.
- pr20
When think about it... i don't think i want a gf... I mean i want a girl i can have sex with 2-3 times a week and hang out with a few times a week, you know diner, a party, shit like that, but nothing more then that. Last relationship teach me i want space to myself to persue whatever the fuck i'm into at the moment, plus i found out when i know too much about the girl (even if we are only having sex) then i loose the attraction.
- section_0140
I'd like things to stay just how they are with my current gf.
We've been at it for almost 2 months now and I am quite pleased with the situation. We go out on Saturday, spend the night together and generally hang out 2 more times during the week, maybe 3. But, I'll go home or she'll go home on these nights. We'll talk on the phone(which I'm not that fond of, but whatever) 5 out of 7 days. The point is, I hang out with my friends, golf, work on music and still get sex and a pretty cool chick to hang out with.
But, I know it's gonna change, it always does. Like, last night, I said I was going to hang out with my friend. Generally, she's cool with it and you know, no big deal. Well, last night I heard something in her voice that suggested otherwise, like there was a deal. fuck. The begining of the end. I mean I get that relationships have to grow or whatever but, if she was like "I'm gonna hang with the girls tonight" I would get some beer and work on tunes or whatever. I guess that's where men and women are different. I don't know. I hate when things get more serious.
- Russell_Sprout0
I'm with that Lloyd guy on this one, cause let me tell you, when you guys say 'FAP' I know what you mean.
- elpaso0
i wish she never made a movie with that other girl and her cup