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- TheBlueOne0
- represents idealized love, the game of love, the power of love over time..in that order..TheBlueOne
- I have been romantic all my life and always being fucked for that. I guess I am not touching those areas anymore.ozhanlion
- no, I totally understand you man. .. but still.ozhanlion
- why would you fuck for any other reason?capsize
- forbes0
id email her now.. all english girls play games with you anyway makes no difference how long u decide to leave it
- nasty whores, the lot of them.TheBlueOne
- yeh, my gf is one so i should know..forbes
- flashbender0
oz - less formal and less deprecating. That comes off as too meek to me.
Hi [name],
I hope you are having a great Friday!Meeting you on the train yesterday really made my day, that would have been enough to keep me smiling the rest of the day, but getting to chat with you after we got off at the same stop has put a silly grin on my face that doesn't seem to be going away.
Since we live in the same area how would you like to go out for drinks in the neighborhood sometime?
hoping your day is as good as mine,
[name]- playa's got the words....robotron3k
- yes yes yes
alicetheblue - really?skt
- That works very well...TheBlueOne
- nice. liking that.Samush
- this is great!ozhanlion
- Too cheesy for me. At least change the "hoping your day is as good as mine" bit.Jaline
- Pretty valid point Jaline. I'm nots old on that either OK OZ, if it works you have to name your first child "Fleshbanger"flashbender
- too cheesy for me too. no go.Tara
- really? Damn.flashbender
- well I am not cheesy in person, and this is only a conversation starter. so it should be okay I think.ozhanlion
- it's too happy happy joy joy, you dont know her and it shouldn't sound like she has turned your world upside down already which this does. it's a bit much.Tara
- this kinda does. just keep it simple and put something light/jokey in there.Tara
- ozhanlion0
geeze you guys are kidding right?. Jaline thanks btw. I agree with Jaline the most so far. I think most of the girls are sophisticated until second date and I kind of like it. I am assuming English are included, no? Should I go nasty with her right on the bat?
- Sure. Let us know how it goes. Good luck.Jaline
- Uh, that "sure" was a "you're welcome". Not in reference to "should I go nasty with her". That depends on the her.Jaline
- no, play coy for the first hour, and once the wine cooler goes to her head - straight away to the nasty business!TheBlueOne
- Yes, let us know how it goes. Pics?TheBlueOne
- SoulFly0
Don't waste any time. contact her now.
Take too long and she'll forget the moment you had.
Waiting to call or write, that is hollywood bull crap.
Next day is fine.
you're on a roll brotha! don't screw this up.
She'll love the open movie wine
Keep us posted to what happened.
- flashbender0
pics or it ...
- somatica0
Email her.
Halo battle?
[ ] Yes
Check one.
- dirtydesign0
Fuck email. Call her.
- agreed, dont be a wuss she will smell your wussyness. actually you had the balls to get her card so you got that going for youblackspade
- yeah.Imposeum
- mattiaBK0
Send her an email today, say hi and start a conversation, then ask her if she wants to go out. Maybe she will say: how about this weekend? And to that you can reply SEX [ ] Yes [ ] No
You can also ask her what does she like for breakfast.- hahaha @ the breakfast partflashbender
- hahJaline
- ask her what is her favorite toothbrush color...TheBlueOne
- if she needs to borrow one of your shirts in case something gets spilled...Jaline
- kelpie0
yeah, phone really late and leave a seriously filthy message on her answer phone; something so dirty you actually feel uncomfortable speaking it aloud.
Take it from me – this has worked every time I've ever tried it with a British girl. They fackin loves it.
- blackspade0
yea she might think you had something better on the go on the weekend so you waited till monday to hook up her as your mid week option
get in there
- So what if she thinks that?Jaline
- seriously?ozhanlion
- something better as in, another lady on the go, and she was mid week seconds, na meean ?blackspade
- probably not, move alongblackspade
- Dr_Rand0
you came to the right place
- kelpie0
See the best way to follow up on my advice would be to go down to her work (follow her about a bit if she hasn't already told you where) and leave wee anonymous notes at her desk alluding to the messages. get her right hot under the collar.
- I'm telling you, this shit's gold, solid gold.kelpie
- Yes, but only if you're looking to get a medal in stalking.rocknonstop
- alicetheblue0
email today - no mention of a date - see how she replies -
- flashbender0
edit:
Meeting you on the train yesterday really made my day, that would have been enough to keep me smiling the rest of the dayshould be:
Meeting you on the train yesterday really made my day, that would have been enough to keep me smiling for quite some time,That day ... day is weird. I should really learn to read things I write before I hit the send button
- why weird, I kind of liked it. rest of the day. this happened around 7pm.ozhanlion
- oh, well, if you're good with it, then roll with it. I hereby transfer all creative ownership rights to you.flashbender
- yeah web2.0 of relationships. crowdsourcing creating the content :) thanks!ozhanlion
- ozhanlion0
Okay, I think I am going to send her an email. What should be my starting line? Should I mock about the gay friend of hers? I mean when I saw her, she looked terribly bored listening to him and only thought that came to my mind was this: Girl, you need a real man! Any tips?
- failureJaline
- What are you? 13?TheBlueOne
- no... could have been her brother...SoulFly
- oops. sorry there.ozhanlion
- FAILwordsinyourmouth
- SoulFly0
ah, ahead of time don't forget to use her business card look her up on myspace, facebook, orkut, linked-in, google, yahoo pictures and picassa.
- TheBlueOne0
NEVER MOCK A SINGLE GIRLS GAY FRIENDS!! EVER!!*
*at least until you sleep with her
- That is rule mother-fucking number one man. Rule fucking one.TheBlueOne
- moth0
Post her email address and we'll do it for you.