Stalker
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- harlequino
So a female friend of mine is being stalked by this guy. He is actually both of our ex-boss. I haven't worked there for over a year, and she left sometime around January. In the past month he has been sending constant text messages and calling her. Creepy and cryptic messages. I just found out about all this as I haven't spoken to her in a few weeks.
Anyone have advice on how to deal with this? I am personally trying to convince her to call someone, cops or an attorney, to get this on record. But I am looking for other thoughts. Thanks folks.
- CALLES0
dont know. they usually call me a loser until i start crying and then i stop stalking
- ********0
Your fist + his face = problem solved.
- ********0
Actually, can she talk to her phone company about getting his number blocked?
I am sure he will start up from another number, but then you really have a case.
- Gucci0
i think stabbing him would probably nip it in the bud.
- Jaline0
Since he's the ex-boss (not currently boss), she should definitely make a complaint with the cops right away.
I understand why people don't complain - because they believe the problem will work itself out or go away, but it's better to be safe.
You have the right idea with the recording / saving messages and letters bit.
- Mimio0
Tell him to stop
- canuck0
Is it dinky? Maybe we should have an intervention on NT.
- harlequino0
Good ideas from flav and jaline.
Yeha, I think she needs a real documented moment of "stop." Like a text message or recorded conversation. I've been reading a few of these txt messages. Creepy and weird, man.
- CALLES0
so tell us more about this "friend" of yours
- OSFA0
is she hot? pics?
- MrD0
Is it dinky? Maybe we should have an intervention on NT.
canuck
(Jul 10 07, 11:08)fok
- OSFA0
harlequino, why wouldn't she go to the cops and his job. First get him fired, then get a rest. order. Case closed.
Oh, and buy a gun...
- k0na_an0k0
tools you'll need:
1 ball peen hammer
1 pair medium sized rubber glovesdirections:
1. pay for hammer in cash.
2. put on rubber gloves.
3. take ball peen hammer to stalkers house.
4. smash his kneecaps.
5. repeat step 4 if necessary.
- CALLES0
I understand why people don't complain - because they believe the problem will work itself out or go away, but it's better to be safe.
Jaline
(Jul 10 07, 11:07)true nobody wants to find themselves in a "put the lotion in the basket situation
- harlequino0
actually she is pretty hot, and I can understand why someone would be obsessed with her. But no pics, lads. She's got enough problems without you louts following her around too. ;)
- MrD0
honestly report it to the cops, have it on record (they wont do anything until there is a constant threat)
this will help her in getting restraining order later
save all text messages and calls.
also have a print out of cell phone calls that were in bounce. high light it and save it
- CALLES0
actually she is pretty hot, and I can understand why someone would be obsessed with her. But no pics, lads. She's got enough problems without you louts following her around too. ;)
harlequino
(Jul 10 07, 11:12)
- harlequino0
Ah, i've been waiting for k0na to ring in on this. :) Believe, i'd like to.
I am telling her she has to really document telling him to stop. She could do real profesional damage to him, too, since he is one of the owners of the company.
- CALLES0
"I can understand why someone would be obsessed with her."
dont record this one
- MrD0
actually she is pretty hot, and I can understand why someone would be obsessed with her. But no pics, lads. She's got enough problems without you louts following her around too. ;)
harlequino
(Jul 10 07, 11:12)
CALLES
(Jul 10 07, 11:13)fok