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- madirish0
haha- awesome. i know him too! :)
we loved that house. so many great times there and i love DC, especially MtP.
stoked you are moving there man, best of luck moving this weeked.
....god i hate moving in DC. such a pain in the ass :)
- tadcautious0
thanks dude. i'm excited to be back living in dc. and recently single too! so perfect timing :)
- jevad0
COmmunication is key. The trust is gone. Move on.
- Jaline0
is there an NT equivalent with all the girls from these same breakups go to vent? just curious.
madirish
(May 4 07, 05:43)I know of some sites, but they're just female-oriented. Not any like this though. Anyway, I try not to post anything like this thread...
Now back to those african american lolitas...
- brooke0
People need experiences like this. Nothing teaches you more than the hard times.
- agentfour0
make a clean break. Take a holiday with friends, get the fuck outta there, dont contact her for a week or two. you aint gonna get over shit by hangin out with her every day.
- -sputnik-0
We agreed to be friends and still hang out with each other. Now its very odd because were still hanging out as much as we used to and we still kiss and hold each other.
coffeesoy
(May 3 07, 23:24)most friends i know don't do that. if you break up, break up...this wishy washiness will only make things worse. some people can be friends w/their exes after they break up, but it doesn't really happen right away...what's happening to you now explains why.
- ********0
you cannot be friends with your ex girlfriend until x amount of time has passed.
x = (at the very least) 6 months.
it just can't be done until you are both over each other.
it's a nice feeling when you do stop hating each other though.
- -sputnik-0
Whenever I mention that becoming friends is not an option, and say that im going to move out of the city. she asks me to stay.
She still kisses and hugs me.
She agrees to casual sex.
Shes either just using me. Or somewhere deep inside shes still in love with me.
coffeesoy
(May 4 07, 00:57)seriously, sounds like she has a real "sh•t or get off the pot" attitude. if she can't make up her mind because she loves you, sorta/not really enough then it's time for you to make the decision for her.
the rest...the new bc, the period, the midterms...that's and even better reason for you to sever ties. is she going to break up w/you every time there's a little stress in her life or she's on her rag? please.
- paraselene0
yes, in fact you should hurry up and break it off clean right now so that you can get around to stopping hating each other sooner rather than later.
- kelpie0
aw fuck here we fucking go
*hardhat
- Jaline0
you cannot be friends with your ex girlfriend until x amount of time has passed.
x = (at the very least) 6 months.
it just can't be done until you are both over each other.
it's a nice feeling when you do stop hating each other though.
skt
(May 4 07, 07:30)exactly.
For all I know, you could be just as indecisive as she is, so I'm not going to say things against her again (like most people here seem to be doing). Both of you need time alone to get your own lives, it seems.
- seed0
I haven't read all of this but I would think: If you really like her just take it slow with her and sincerely apologize for whatever you did wrong. Tell her you learned from you past experiences and that you want to learn and improve from those mistakes. At the same time since your taking it slow get out and meet new friends. You have got to have more goals, motivations and interests outside of this one girl.
- gramme0
can't be buggered to read nearly 80 posts, but the chick can't have her cake and eat it too.
Either you're fully together, or you aren't.
I've found that when relationships end, being 'just friends' is impossible. Perhaps months or even years later you can be platonic with her, but not now.
Perhaps if given the proper distance that should exist between platonic friends, she'll come round.
- Complexfruit0
time heals all wounds my friend. heartache and lost love is a part of all our lives. give yourself the space and time away from your ex.
there's no doubt you both care for each other, but sometimes things end and you must go on.
you say you have no friends or family to talk to...im sure that's not really true. just reconnect with your friends and family to help you get your mind off of her.
best of luck. you'll be fine in due time.