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- akoni
k this is lame coming from me, because i hate to be mushy and stuff.. even though it aint mush.. but lets put it this way, i was sweating just looking for a ring the other day with my cousin.
Anywho, back to the point.
I want to ask my gf for her hand... any advice? I am broke at the moment...well broke enough where her shiny medalion for her finger will be put on credit, but other than that she is awesome, and I am not under any pressure.
So start throwing darts and give me suggestions/ideas, etc.
- monkeyshine0
start saying things to her about how what you really love about your relationship is that you both share similar values and how you both are not materialistic and you love her bohemian qualities, etc.
If you do this right, you might save two months worth of your salary. :)
- akoni0
ha, she is already pretty much ok with that, she came from a pretty 'unwealthy' background, as far as money goes. Just something I would want to do. :)
- version30
from personal experience, relationships that try to force themselves in the stereotypical direction of the collective's "relationship" suffer from the same problems faced by those before them
- _salisae_0
sure there is a dyi article on this subject somewhere has to be
i'm picturing a tree with a carving but the knife is stabbed in the tree with the ring secured beneath it's tip
and if she says no then you have got that knife handy
- _salisae_0
um meant to say diy
dyi = do yourself in
- e-pill0
my wife and i pierced our tongues at the same time, this was our engagment.
we exchanged rings, but i never got her a diamond..
was there a rule that said i had to/?? no there is not!! we are happy and going on 8years.
just ask her and thats it..only worry if she says no...
- akoni0
haha @ shari
- _salisae_0
aww anthony .. didn't recognize this as you. sounds like a good girl .. def go for it :)
- jaimeboyle0
I am in a similar position. My bf for almost 8 years is also broke and I "think" he might just be planning to ask me without a ring. As long as it is from the heart and thoughtful I believe that asking her is what is important. The ring can always come later. Not all women are ga ga over huge diamonds.
Good Luck.
I say go for it.
- version30
The ring can always come later.
jaimeboyle
(Mar 19 07, 10:55)be scared shitless akoni
- e-pill0
The ring can always come later.
jaimeboyle
(Mar 19 07, 10:55)be scared shitless akoni
version5
(Mar 19 07, 10:56)fuck that!! i had the money then and i have the money now, but to me thats a complete waste of money.
- akoni0
be scared shitless akoni
version5
(Mar 19 07, 10:56)already am there version, but i plan to use you to practice, so go toss on your wig, coo?
- version30
I gave the wig back
*puts on dress in its placego for it! :)
- akoni0
I gave the wig back
*puts on dress in its placego for it! :)
version5
(Mar 19 07, 11:03)not working, you need to tear up or something, the eyes connection just isn't beautiful enough
- akoni0
I gave the wig back
*puts on dress in its placego for it! :)
version5
(Mar 19 07, 11:03)that latex dress is f'ing sexy though ;)
- version30
hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahhah...
i actually typed all that, no copy paste, how much more love do you need?
- akoni0
haha... i feel like daisys and rainbows now thanks to version5...
now ...onto more work so I can afford things... plus i want to play with apollo a bit today
- Mimio0
Take the direct approach. Go find her and do it know.
- k0na_an0k0
Can you draw?
Sketch out "Will You Marry Me?" in a really nice script font and ink it in during your free time away from her. Break out the sketch book one night and say you're going to draw her really quick or something. Ink in a flower or two while she's thinking you're drawing her then a half hour or so later have her close her eyes, when she opens then have the ring in one hand and your sketch in the other.
Then you can frame the sketch as a keepsake.
If you want to do it in the park under a young tree even better. Then when you're old bring your kids to the now grown tree and have a picnic under it.
If you cant draw... yur fucked with this idea. haha.
- Mimio0
^now...wtf?