Relationship Advice
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- tkmeister0
tank, i hear you.
now, what are we gonna do?
i think i wanna buy something really really expensive. that'll make me feel better.
- brooke0
Sure I'll dance with you.
- tank020
ej brooke,
didn't mean to come over uhm like i did, its just a strange situation, i really understand her and i really understad you, best thing you can do is call it quits.. no magic, no fire..whats the use than, maybe its just a deep friendship you feel for this guy..but then again.. what do i know..i'm a relation-disaster ;)
hope everything sorts itself out cause you're a nice person..greets
- joyride0
i think i wanna buy something really really expensive. that'll make me feel better.
tkmeister
(Mar 17 06, 12:41)This will fix you right up, it's where I got mine =)
http://www.network54.com/Forum/3…
- _salisae_0
most find true love once maaayyybe twice in their lives
- canuck0
move on, it's going to be summer soon. good time to be single.
- robotron3k0
sounds like he just needs a fashion makeover for you to get the hots for him again. that's all.
- c_valencia0
....get a cat.
- tkmeister0
joyride,
you are making me become a self-indulgent single guy.
- fullerc0
Brooke,
I went through the same thing a bunch of years ago only with 2 girls.
I told my dad that I still have feeling for my first love even though I've been with my partner for years and asked if it would ever stop.
He told me "it never will" and looked at me in a way that I knew he still loved my mom even though they were divorced for like 10 years at the time.
Anyway I'm still with my second love although we've never married. My first love emails every once in awhile, she is married with 2 kids and still tells me she loves me.P.S. Sorry for pissing you off yesterday
- taragee0
if its not there, its not there
maybe you need some time alone after that long term thing to get sorted out...
and what greedo said ;)
goodluck baba
- not_lebowski0
all chicks want some guy to sponge off of. this is a proven fact. it is annoying but true.
- taragee0
id liek a sponge to mop you up with
- emokid0
magic is what you want it to be. it is directly proportional to the amount of effort one puts into it.
dont be mislead by movies, books, songs and people who say if its not there its not there.
if two people are just not compatible then that is a different issue.
- joyride0
joyride,
you are making me become a self-indulgent single guy.
tkmeister
(Mar 17 06, 13:31)LOL... but really you need to treat yourself to something nice everyonce and a while. Beside, I've had a ton of girls comment on it, its not even funny. So you won't be single for long if thats what your looking for.
And Brooke, just be honest with whatever you do.
- versa0
after many a relationship, i am a firm believer in love as a choice so to speak - every day waking up and saying hey, this person is great and i'm gonna give it another great go today to be my best with them, and give all that i can healthfully - predicting how things will be later, never seems to work or be right on the money - i suppose "the magic" is the same way - it will be what you make it to be i think - don't wait for an easy feeling - if you had it before, it could be just as dependent upon where you both were at the time period, and there is no guarentee it would have stayed so "magical" even with the prior guy -
- not_lebowski0
if two people are just not compatible then that is a different issue.
emokid
(Mar 17 06, 13:45)dude, I know where youre going with this. anal isnt that cool of a thing and should break anyone apa...ah hell blah
- Mimio0
I think you're right versa, and conversely people can talk themselves out of love too.
- prodigalslacker0
joining this a little late. coming from a similar situation sort of.
i'll just say that the girl i dated and had that, as you said 'magic' with - everything from then on gets compared to her. inadvertently, without intent, but instantly gets compared to her.
until i find someone that knocks me on my ass as much as she did, just by entering a room, i fear i'll never be as happy as i possibly could be. and it sucks.
good luck, miss brooke.
- Boz0
Brooke, if you say that this guy is really sincere and good as he is, I don't think it's fair that you stay with him if you feel the way you feel. I believe that if you don't feel completed with a person and have that "magic" as you said, it's not fair to go on and stretch the whole thing just to see if that magic might happen. Usually the magic is not there if you don't feel it from the beginning and if it's not there it will eventually lead to a break up. At least that's how it is with me.
Especially if he's a good guy and really deserves to be with someone who can give him complete attention and sincerity. I think you already know what to do.
You know best in your heart if you really really click with him or not. Another thing is, down the line, you might meet the "magic" guy again and you will definitely start thinking again about how good you really get along with the current boyfriend. I don't know, I pretty much suck at relationships. but I'm just looking from the perspective of your current boyfriend. I wouldn't like to be with a person that has in one way or the other reservations towards our relationship.
I wish you resolve it and stay happy.