fidelity
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- jblue
A question for guys and gals.
If you're partner tells you that they've thought about having 'another' affair, and only hadn't because they were turned down. Although they are very sorry. What would you do?
- Jaline0
Well...that would seriously suck.
Probably break it off with them, depending on how serious your relationship with them is.
- _salisae_0
def need more info here
sounds like shite tho
- DBitW0
Cut and run, think about it, they told you they didn't because "they were turned down"
sounds like they're playin a game.IMO
- jblue0
That little bit of info was given the day before their wedding day. They did get married.
- Jnr_Madison0
No brainer, DUMP them.
- Jnr_Madison0
Yeah but was it a week before they were due to get hitched or when they just strated dating? That changes things.
- lifeinsodium0
if the person confessed without getting caught then he/she might actually be sorry. it would also mean that the person has a conscience and that is a good thing.
we all fuck up in one way or the other. some are brave enough to face the music and some run.
- -leah-0
dump their ass
- jevad0
i'd tell them to get the fuck out of my house, crawl under a rock, and rot to death
- _salisae_0
i agree with life
if you don't mind my asking .. how does it involve you?
- jblue0
The first affair was after 3 years together (2 years before wedding) long before proposal. The attempted affair was 3 months before they got married.
- jblue0
Best friend. It just bothers me and I've wondered what other people think who don't know them would do.
- lifeinsodium0
finally salisae agrees with me on something.
'operation: woo salisae' is a go.
- _salisae_0
she chose to marry him with the information given. i'd leave it alone.
- DBitW0
yeah leave it be
- Jaline0
yeah...maybe they'll be fine.
- jblue0
She's the one wondering whether she did the right thing. Was a bit of a shock I suppose. Day before the wedding and all. She loves him. But now she's had time to think she wonders whether he'd do it again. I thought they were a great couple so I'm shocked.
- dippy0
regardless, now that they're married, it's not gonna change a thing. If you're unfaithful before marriage, it's not hard to be unfaithful after. You're best friends with half the couple, so the best thing for you to do is give them your support and celebrate and encourage their fidelity.
- _salisae_0
:)
can't deny a brillant opinion like yours, life
- DBitW0
sounds like he just said something really stupid
guys tend to do things like that every now and again