Long distance relationships?
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- erok
I am in Atlanta, Ga.... I met a girl over christmas while in Chicago. I really like her.. Does long distance ever work?
- swollenelbow0
i'm in new york and i met my girl in an office we had in miami. we are living together now in here in ny. so i guess they do work. you need a lot of balls to do it.
blue balls. =) no seriously, if both parties are into it you will have no problem. talk on the phone, visit often, and decide on what's best for eachother right now and how things can get better. by better i mean how you will finally meet up in the same place in the end. so do you really want this?
- erok0
I am willing...
Let's see what happens..
- phatlee0
Works fine for me...but both of you need to be wiiling, and never argue over the phone cos its not worth it, it only makes you feel crap.
- MR_T0
Depends how long your cock is
- newstobe0
i live in Tampa, Fl and my girlfriend of 4 years lives in Athens, GA. Our relationship works because we have time apart. Sure it sucks, and i have also questioned if it will work. What it all comes down to is LOVE. I never have a doubt when we are together that it will work. The biggest problem however is trust. You just never know......
- crap0
I live in europe
my man Eric lives in usa
we mail alot
he'll be here in one week
thankgod
lol
- erok0
Thanks everyone for the feedback.. It means a lot.. Keep it coming!
-erok
- phatlee0
Im really lucky as I knew my girlfriend for nearly ten years until I started I seeing her. If you trust eachother and if its what you both want, then there wont be any problems...just keep in regular contact.
- Jman0
I've had a 5-hour long distance relationship for over two years, and my girlfriend just moved here 4 days ago. It can be hard, but i think it builds a better relationship based on communication and trust, rather than sex and physical contact. So many people get caught up in the "we have to be together every second" syndrome that they lose themselves. But with long distance, you learn to be in a relationship while mainaining your sense of self......works for me!
- lj0
Yes. I live in Belgium and my girlfriend lived in canada. I met her in Belgium then she got back to Canada to get her diploma. We've been seperate for 4 months, she came back and we now live happily together.
- crap0
lj, where in belgium?
antwerp?
- lj0
No, Brussels
- Soler0
I live in Colorado, and met my love in Oregon, but she lives in L.A.
The distance was OK because we were so attracted to each other. However, when you are feeling a connection so strong that you are willing to try long-d., it becomes very difficult to be apart. I bought 5 plane tickets in 4 months.
Luckily she is a freelance painter and she was able to move to Colorado after 4 months, temporarily, to see how things work. She is here now and it is going great... BUT, at some point very soon one of us has to make a move. I emotionally can't wait around. I want to be together.
My advice is only do it if you can be together within a 6 month period. Otherwise, you will torcher yourself if your truly crazy about her.
- brooke0
Trust me, if it's special enough, it will work...
- fifty500
I live in Toronto and my girlfriend lives in Munich (that's right, the one in Germany). We've been together for almost three years. I admit that I get to see her almost every month for a week or two at a time, and i get cheap airfares with Air Canada (we're talking $150 round-trip), so things have worked out pretty well so far. Be aware that lots of problems arise from being apart almost all the time, so yes you have to have a LOT of patience to pull it off.
- kbags0
Nobody can tell you cuz it all depends on who you are and who she is...deep down.
If it's right, it'll work, but it's a risky proposition. Some things in life are worth the risk. Others wind up kicking you in the teeth. Are you a risk taker or what?!?
- erok0
Yes, I am.. I am searching for a solemate..
_erocka3000
- alexkx0
who knows, maybe you were meant to be together
hehehe
- Arthur_MR0
I live in Vienna, Austria and my girlfriend near Zurich...it works perfectly, it`s great...actually I`m addicted to trains now...
hopefully, my studies will continue next year in zurich