Crappy New year
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- Aliyah0
"i do hope you all have a better new year. I know it will be better than mine
heliana"
What a downer:( I am sure if you are looking for suport for your obvious depression there are more appropriate places to post than a designers forum... why not do yourself a favor and try
http://www.befrienders.org/ or http://groups.msn.com/Depression…...
- rasko40
ok now I got so far and i clicked here and there bur seriously, Heliana shut the fuck up whining like a twat, I have had and so I would imagine many others have had some serious nasty shit happen over the last 8 months but I haven't whinged like a twat here once, get a grip and fucking get it together, and besides that, I think I have just fucked up a long time friendship by fighting drunkenly/coked up with an old friend... actually rolling around on the floor looking eachother in the eye talking evil shit *shiver*
- vespa0
aw yea it's the crappy new year come down. For all of you who are starting the get the guilt trips or paranoia from a night of excess, get yourselves a nice bacon sandwich and a big fat bifter and relax! rasko skin one up for your friend and surely all will be forgiven?
- heliana0
Aliyah,vespo,and the rest:
I am an architect, you have not idea what I have been trhough and you cannot tell me that complaining about my crappy new year in NT is not allowed. I have seen the worst threats, nothing to do with design, completely out of place. I needed to complain, and I will complain, because there might be people having a worst start, but this is mine, and i hate it so much that i dont think i will make it thru. You dont know me, you dont want to know me, NT always seemed to be the least serious designers forum that I ever found, and that is the reason I posted here.Besides, i thought someone somewhere would relaye yo my pain. You dont need to know this, but my father dies, my brother dies, I am a continent away from home, noone to talk to an no friends at all.
So the ones who dont like me complaining and would like me to fuck off, JUST FUCK OFF>
This is the only thing i can do to feel that soeone, somewhere is actually thinking of me.
And I am a downer, dont read, dont reply to my threats.
Life hasnt been nice to me, I am not in a warm place wating for my dinner to be served.
So, if you dont like it, dont read it.
But dont you dare to tell me to fuck off
- nessdog0
i can't believe this thread's got so long. moan moan moan. yawn. i felt sorry for you when i read the thread last night. if i moaned as much as you, i think i'd get dumped too. rasko.... happy new year! people say dumb stuff when under the influence of dr zhivago and alcohol... (like me last night) hope you sort it out. take it easy everyone. xxx
- unfittoprint0
As a fellow architect, I'll give you an advice: dive into your work, engage yourself in an interesting project, competition or otherwise... Work your butt off, thinking of nothing else. It'll help, I promise.
*tip
starting this week:
http://400000.coac.net/habitatge…
- heliana0
thanks, unfittoprint
- paulrand0
sweet rice cooked to oatmeal consistency with chinese sausage and egg
- wonderwagon0
nyquil and porn...
rad.
w.w.
- mrdobolina0
someone bring a joint over to my place and I will make linguini in a tomato cream sauce with shrimp in payback.
- jevad0
god that sounds good....not good enough for the flight over though...
; )
- solmo0
Heliana. I love u.
- mrdobolina0
jevad, always welcome!
- mitsu0
heliana, i understand your pain. i've been there and many here have as well, or will someday, and then will understand. this is just the substance of life. the phrase 'shit happens' wasn't coined just because it has a nice ring to it, but because it's something we all experience. i know the darkest feelings of despair when nothing in life seems important, when you can't muster the motivation to do anything, much less exist. i know the feeling of investing years into a relationship and one day lose it all. it's a horrible pain and a tough hill to get over. sometimes it takes months, sometimes years. what's important is to realize that you only live once and that you should make the best of it. your first step is to nurse your wounds so you can get on with your life. i've found that the best remedy is to just talk about your problems to friends. talk until you're sick of hearing you feel sorry for your pathetic self. when you can't talk to people, keep your self busy. watch funny movies and work out. do both at the same time. it's amazing how you start to feel alive again. after all, depression is only a chemical imbalance. you can change the way you feel, your emotions by changing your habits. get a new haircut, get your teeth whitened. get out and meet new people, work with the homeless, under-priveledged children. think about what life will be like when you've found your new love. you'll wonder why you ever grieved for the last guy for as long as you did. before you know it, you'll go days and then weeks without feeling depressed. it's a gradual process, but it's something that everyone in life goes through. you're not alone! i've got a few friends myself that are going through the same thing. one more thing, don' t look to anonymous people on the internet for consolation. most people don't want to hear the problems of a total stranger. so venting here will only frustrate you more. get out and meet people. you can do it. 'this to shall pass'
good luck!
- ********0
i cant believe you came here today
to be away
- heliana0
i really hope you are not talking to me,BXCAR
- ********0
no no
no worries
- ********0
- Aliyah0
"Aliyah,vespo,and the rest:
I am an architect, you have not idea what I have been through and you cannot tell me that complaining about my crappy new year in NT is not allowed. "I have not said you are "not allowed" I simply suggested that you go and vent, whine, complain etc about your current situation, In a forum that is suited, and equipped to help you, understand you and support you. NT is simply NOT is not that place. People here are not equipped to deal with your threats of suicide, or to help you deal with your depression.
Assuming that you are the only one who has ever gone through a depression, or has ever lost people important and close to you, or had any issues that may feel like the end of the world is foolish. We have all experienced pain. We have all experienced loss. But that is not why we are here. This is not depression today.My suggestion was made with concern. You are sitting on your computer making veiled threats to end your life, on a forum filled with people who cannot help you. Sure we may share a similar vocation. But this is not a suicide or depression support group. If you are feeling despair over your job or the fact that you got fired, or because someone ripped of your design ideas etc.. Perhaps this would be a suitable forum.
But that is not what you have been talking about. I am not trying to be mean, or cold. Or hostile towards you in anyway shape or form. I am only trying to encourage you to seek help from a forum, a support phone line, or a real life therapist who can actually help you, who can point you in the right direction to get yourself some help, help which to seem to need very much.
I stand by my suggestion try a support line. http://www.befrienders.org/
or try a newsgroup filled with people who know exactly what you are going through http://groups.msn.com/Depression…...
I do hope you decided to seek appropriate support for your problems. And I hope that you wake up one morning and realize what feels like the end of the world, is often not only the end of an old life, but the beginning of a new world, a new life where hope, and possibility is strong, and accessible.
- vespa0
erm cross communication there heliana, i wasn't having a go at you. A nice bacon sandwich and a bifter the morning after excess usually make my world better. (I'm a simple creature I know.)
Aliyah has a few good points there - people can be so hit or miss in the PV-AN that it's not such a good idea to get your main support from here. But best wishes from my direction.