Crappy New year
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"Aliyah,vespo,and the rest:
I am an architect, you have not idea what I have been through and you cannot tell me that complaining about my crappy new year in NT is not allowed. "I have not said you are "not allowed" I simply suggested that you go and vent, whine, complain etc about your current situation, In a forum that is suited, and equipped to help you, understand you and support you. NT is simply NOT is not that place. People here are not equipped to deal with your threats of suicide, or to help you deal with your depression.
Assuming that you are the only one who has ever gone through a depression, or has ever lost people important and close to you, or had any issues that may feel like the end of the world is foolish. We have all experienced pain. We have all experienced loss. But that is not why we are here. This is not depression today.My suggestion was made with concern. You are sitting on your computer making veiled threats to end your life, on a forum filled with people who cannot help you. Sure we may share a similar vocation. But this is not a suicide or depression support group. If you are feeling despair over your job or the fact that you got fired, or because someone ripped of your design ideas etc.. Perhaps this would be a suitable forum.
But that is not what you have been talking about. I am not trying to be mean, or cold. Or hostile towards you in anyway shape or form. I am only trying to encourage you to seek help from a forum, a support phone line, or a real life therapist who can actually help you, who can point you in the right direction to get yourself some help, help which to seem to need very much.
I stand by my suggestion try a support line. http://www.befrienders.org/
or try a newsgroup filled with people who know exactly what you are going through http://groups.msn.com/Depression…...
I do hope you decided to seek appropriate support for your problems. And I hope that you wake up one morning and realize what feels like the end of the world, is often not only the end of an old life, but the beginning of a new world, a new life where hope, and possibility is strong, and accessible.