dating advice...
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- ********0
paxil™
- ********0
man get out of your rut and show your woman why she married you in the first place...tell her you feel insecure, talk to her dammit not the internet.
- snocat0
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why is this bullshit
these advice should be only serve as advice, not one advice will be my answer, but it has helped me gather the thoughts together
sorry, lately i have been unable to gather thoughts and focus really well on one thing...
- snocat0
we're married and living together for christ sake....
where is the trust? im not out there killing somebody, im not stealing or fucking with anyone...i m just trying to improve my work and reach for whatever i wanted to do in the first place...
- snocat0
some friend's advice suggested that she posted her profile for fun and meeting other guys just for a little spice that im not giving in this marriage...
- snocat0
just for information, my wife is a girl where if your her friend and you are no harm to her, she would be okay ...
but if your her enemey, or going against her, she would do anything just to fuck you up...suicide for revenge
- monkeyshine0
Read back through your posts...do you see how fkd up all you're saying is? What if your best friend told you the same story.
Sounds like both you and your wife have big emotional issues that pre-date you as a couple. You both should get individual therapy and then deal with the couple thing.
Good luck.
- AD0
try and hook up with her anonymously online as a single dude - try and see exactly what she's doing
- Carty0
all a girl needs is attention and love... if you are taking care of that shit all should be good...
dont put a computer screen before a woman... its just gonna end up with you being a lonely dude...
try and separate your time more... time with your wife and time with your work...
tell her you know she's been online looking for love... but tell her she doesnt need to do that shit anymore...
pay attention to her... its worth the price...
- unknown0
man wtf is wrong with you homie?
you're married and you're mingling on your computer??
wtf??
I don't blame her for starting a side project
you my friend gotta act like a husband and give that woman some good lovin'
homie and you're still talkin' noise in here?
talk to that woman instead
man that's some sad shit
- nNine0
Talk to her...
Give her atention
Make her a part of your projects
- IRNlun60
wouldn't this be marriage advice and not dating advice?
this sounds like my ex that I lived with for 3 years. her name wouldn't happen to be Jill would it?
For better or for worst, best advice would definetly be to talk to her.
- ********0
look deep inside. you prolly don't really want to be married to this girl anymore. if you can't find the time to be with this girl and make her happy, it's all wrong by definition. get a divorce and use the dating profile as evidence to show infidelity so you can keep your estate...
- shellie0
she just wants attention.
ive been in a relationship for 2 years and it's been the longest relationship ive had to date. many guys think im pretty and sometimes i find myself leaving out the fact that im spoken for when speaking to other guys. i dont purposely flirt and most of the time i will at some point let the person im talking to know that i have a boyfriend if they start flirting and whatnot. but my boyfriend is also an artist and sometimes works long hours.. and other times hes playing video games or whatever. so i go online and talk to people and design and get lonely n stuff ( i dont get out much). my point being.. she just wanted the attention that youre not giving her and seeking it other places. true, its shifty that she met up with someone without her knowing... but you should really communicate and work things out. talking on the internet is one thing but dates and flirting are another. sounds like a job for marriage counseling. seriously. chek out your insurance it might be covered (or at least a few sessions).
i meant to post this last nite but i guess i never pushed the broadcast button. weird
- ********0
sounds like both of you are in the wrong relationship... why don't you guys see if there's a spark between you?
- dgtl_rchtct0
i'm in same situation but i also have a 4mos old child.
sucks cause it feels like one day i'll meet mrs. right and i know it ain't my wife. (hey that rhymed!)
in any event, marriage sucks. having a kid rocks. posting on NT at 3am is the shit...or does that make me a loser?
- scarabin0
dump that bitch
cheating ho
- scarabin0
uh, no offense or anything
- hulja0
just try to remember that the only way ANY relationship can survive is with open communication. if you don't communicate your thoughts to your lady and vice versa, then your relationship is screwed. .. and boring and miserable.. and results in asking hundreds of strangers for advice..
don't jump to conclusions about the dating service or why she did it. just ask. you're married. be straight with her. jesus...
- quamb0
johnwoo sounds like vanilla ice or one of the backstreet boys, homie.
anyhow- your married and haven't talked about this?
do what carty said.