Dream Girl
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- ok_static0
one more tip, you got to let her know what's in your mind, especially when you two are in different field.
one work in creative must have a different mindset than one work in paperworks.
- ok_static0
Sometimes you got to play dumb.
- ********0
duh?
- jking760
i'm still wondering why he likes this chick who isn't into the whole design clique?
i just don't get it? and Kote sounds sort of like Toke right? how cool is that for a girl to be with a guy so closely related to one of the web's biggest design celebrities?
- kote0
She is a designer - it's just that she doesnt fit the mold (thank god).
I love her to pieces. Yes she went out with this guy on a date - I dont know if we are a couple. I will find out tomorrow when I go talk to her.
We talked a bit his afternoon - it is all the little things - and I need to pay more attention to her.
All I can do is explain why i have withdrawn, how much she means to me, and where I see us in the fututre. I definatly see her in the picture.
Pray for me fellas...
- ********0
praying............
its always good to see a happy couple
- Sapphire0
if you guys can work this out maturly then there shouldn't be any problem, i'm sure this isn't happening everytime a bd4d happens. right?
- ********0
update?
- kote0
no Saphire, it isnt. I messed up big time. But that isnt the only reason. I have been super busy with work, or I thought I was.
Now when I look back I was just being inconsiderate. I should have made time for her. I really do love this girl. I hope we can work through this. It's tough now, 'cause this other guy is showing her with gifts, etc...
All I can do is talk to her and show her much I love her.
- ok_static0
Share your fonts with her.
- kote0
I think I have lost her. I want her to be my wife. There is no other woman I that will fill her shoes. I dont know what to do except to leave her alone....to let her follow her path.
I hope that she realizes what we had, and can have. I love her so much...I am empty inside.
- neeko0
my condolences kote. hang in there bud, and hopefully everything will turn out ok.
you can only try and be a better man in the future, we cant change the mistakes we've made in the past.
- ********0
man ...
just think of it this way.. if she was meant to be than she will come back.. it doesnt matter when..
it could be 10 yrs or 10 months..
true love lives in side your heart,... you are lucky to experience love.. most of us dont expereience love at all..
its like orgaism for women, they think they have had it but you know when you really had it.. (eh?)
dont worry man.. i have also had and lost my love... but i look forward to the day that when we will be together again... true love is timeless...
- jevad0
live and learn kote - live and learn....if it was meant to be - it will be.
- kote0
It hurts so bad everybody. I slept maybe 2 hours last night...
I am a wreck. I have done all i can do - told her how I felt. I just shouldnt have been such an ass. I have a deep hollow spot inside..
thank you all for the support.
- ********0
feeling fo ye kote. not easy I know.
- stretch1160
you've just said exactly what she wants to hear man!
yeeeeba yebaaaaa, go get her back dude!!
If she can't see that you know you weren't as attentive as you should have been then her loss for you being sensative, millions more out there dude.
- vespa0
Poor kote :(
Don't feed the hollow spot with drink or drugs. Maybe go shopping for initial reprieve from the guilt monster.
If you are into it, do some excercise - not only will the endorphins make you feel better, you'll look good for when your next chance comes around...
- cajo0
Let me give you an advice. wiman dont like "crybaby boys". they do need some attention, not excuses, or I am sorry! You need to surprise her, you need to call for her attention , but without losing your control. You must be secure of yourself. dont show er that your're like complete hurt. maybe she like's you but she just want to make you jelous. Be romantic, be esponatneous! Send her a rose. sing her a serenata, but never loose your control! Be a funny guy, use humor, if she ever liked you, she will come back! never stop to be yourself...
hasta
- ********0
Oooh. Kote...
I'd try and sympathize but I can't. I've seen so many lovely girls taken for granted, it all leaves me a little bitter.. so like others say - you'll learn your lesson.
You should also realise that work is of no consequence in you life, and you shouldn't pay any more time to it than is required. Nurture you relationships, your friendships and your family and you'll never have that hollow feeling inside. I'm not saying this will help though - I've been left by a woman recently who I could've spent my life with, and before she left - she said the kindest things... I did no wrong, but at 30, she believes it needs to be love, and there was something missing for her.... Sad yes - but I harbor no regrets for the way I treated her.Another method I guess is to get her in to bed one last time and fuck her senseless, then she'll never leave. ;)