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  • bainbridge0

    Why do I keep thinking so many women are into me but I can't even find one to date.

    It's confusing.

    My coworker who is married, comes over and taps me playfully on the shoulder and wants to talk pretty frequently.

    My friend at a bar I go to weekly is always hugging me and staring at me but we've hung out and the spark is not there.

    Met a cool girl at a party who wanted to talk, asked me lots of questions and gave me her number. We went out for drinks a few days later and she wanted to pay, and then she tells me about her boyfriend and how it's not a good relationship, but she's trying to make it work.

    My barista makes small talk.

    • Women work like this ¯\_( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)_/¯OBBTKN
    • Maybe you should try women who are not married or do not have boyfriends ;)OBBTKN
    • friendzone ≠ into youpango
    • yeah 100% women :)
      a. looks like you aren't used to these things.
      b. gay?
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    • Go out and meet people.monospaced
    • Go hang out with catpower.Continuity
    • Maybe they think you're gay.i_monk
    • You are the backup option. Each of these women are uncertain about their relationships and are testing the waters in case things fall apart.monNom
    • it’s a pretty common strategy among animals. Domestic cats often have a backup family they go visit. I’d take it as a good sign you have so much interest.monNom
    • ^ women love that shit. Comparing them to domestic cats... ;-pmort_
    • lol continuity!_niko
    • I can confirm the cat part. And then it all suddenly makes sense.SimonFFM
    • I have a friend who was always like this. He is immediately marked as a safe confidant. He thinks they're into him sometimes but nothing happens.CyBrainX
    • I am totally some women's confidantbainbridge
    • Small talk, shoulder taps = "Finally someone who wants to sleep with me"jagara

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