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Got a date tonight, first one in over a year-and-a-half of being single. Macedonian woman who lives in Munich, connected with her on OK Cupid on Saturday. She asked me out (and not vice-versa), within maybe half an hour of us chatting. She's attractive, seems interesting, so I happily agreed.
And now that it's the day, all I want to do is stay home, chill, eat something awesome ... on my own. I'm dog-tired from everything that's happened this year ... pestilence, being unemployed since Jan, changes everywhere, not having had proper holidays in three years. It's all too much, and I just don't feel like I've got tonight in me.
I'll go anyway, just because I don't want to be an arsehole, but still. Ugh.
- Feel the same when having to meet somebody these days. It's like we're sick of humans. But do it, push it, you might meet your future wife lol********
- But don't marry, it's a trap ofc********
- https://i.imgur.com/…moldero
- Earlier I mentioned about a date I went on recently. We went for walks in the park which was generally uncomfortable. No touch or general ease with...Ianbolton
- each other due to things which were way beyond our control. But in the same way I know I was probably tired and restless. Do what feels right man.Ianbolton
- I think what surprises me is just how profoundly exhausted I feel; like I simply don't have energy for anything. But, hey, like graf said, I should go ...Continuity
- ... anyway, and push through it. If nothing else, it's an evening with human interaction. Being holed up solitary isn't healthy long-term.Continuity
- @Ianbolton Had a date recently, the idea was to walk her home after, we barely made it half way and I called for an Uber...********
- Well, that fills me with the utmost confidence tonight will go swimmingly ...
Ugh, guys.Continuity - You'll find the energy to get out and yo'ull be glad you did.monospaced
- This is what it's like with kids. You are perpetually exhausted — think YEARS — but the option to do nothing doesn't exist like it does if you don't have kids.monospaced
- Il'l do my best!Continuity
- I understand you 100%. 2020 blues.SimonFFM
- @graf dating in 2020 is ridiculous. Everybody seems to have been lobotomised by COVID.Ianbolton
- Yes go anyway and take it easy********
- Nothing to loose... Try to forget this pest for a moment, sure she wants the same. Qbn energy on the way!! Have a blast and make us proud ;)OBBTKN
- @Ianbolton 100%********
- Pics?drgs
- Are you back yet?dee-dubs
- ^fuck you********
- Go for it!garbage
- FFS. Turns out, I ended up being into her way more than she evidently was into me. Net result, staying home would still have been the better option. Fuck this.Continuity
- Bit of a twist I wasn't expecting.Continuity
- Imagine the same situation but you've been married a few years to this lady. And all you want is a night to yourself, chill, cook something good.shapesalad
- Instead you got to play good husband and chit chat at dinner she cooks,, but you don't like...shapesalad
- oh, sorry to hear that @cont! chin up man.renderedred
- Don’t forget to brush your teeth.
Good luck man!antimotion - Good luck next time!.
@shape, what you wrote is touching...OBBTKN - pic?pango
- Don't beat yourself up @Cont, you have to try. You never know what comes out of something like this.pseud
- Cheers, lads. At least I got out of the house, and met a real human being, so there's that much gained.Continuity
- How you feeling @Continuity?Ianbolton
- Good question. Actually, I was a bit miffed that I ended up being more into her than her into me. It's pretty typical for me when that happens.Continuity
- Which is especially ironic, when you consider I wasn't feeling like going.
But yeah, dating in 2020 sucks.Continuity
- Feel the same when having to meet somebody these days. It's like we're sick of humans. But do it, push it, you might meet your future wife lol