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    I’ve been helping a new friend get through a divorce and admittedly I have affections for her, but took the moral stance that I’d rather she was okay and didn’t want my feeling or sex to confuse things. It’s been difficult but I felt good that I was making that stance. Last night me and another close friend were at hers drinking and whatnot. He gets into her bed at 5am and wakes me up fucking. I feel conflicted as to whether I’m pissed that I took the moral stance I did or whether I’m just jealous, or probably both. It’s really fucking me up as I do actually really like her.

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    • Oh man, I can't begin to imagine how much poison's flowing around your head right now. You did the right thing, he didn't, bt what difference does that make?Nairn
    • You need to go out and get some distraction sex asap, find someone else to take your mind off her, because this'll eat up your mental capacity.Nairn
    • As much as it's always best to do the right thing, it's rarely the best thing to do the right thing, 'cos some other human's guaranteed to do the wrong thing.Nairn
    • Cheers for just the words man. It’s such a brain melter. You do the right thing and you get fucked up, you make a move and ruin something beautiful.Ianbolton
    • Feel better just getting these thoughts out of my head to be fair, but right now I just want to get pissed and it’s half 9 in the morning!!Ianbolton
    • it sounds like that episode of family guy...
      https://www.youtube.…      hans_glib
    • Haha. Kinda!Ianbolton
    • If you have affections for her and she fucked your friend while you were there she has no affection for you.deadsperm
    • Not making a move on her was a good call on all levels. You win!deadsperm
    • Kinda hot cuck story.NBQ00
    • Should have tried to join in and make it even more awkward.PhanLo
    • I know this is 1950's of me, but in nearly every case, men and women can't be proper friends. Someone's feelings are getting hurt.section_014
    • I think deadsperm is right here, just move onBennn
    • dude, don't take the high-road here. you were playing the long game but got out played.Gnash
    • she should feel lucky to have such good friends. the two of you obviously just wanting to piitbCALLES
    • Ha! If you indeed just wanted to PIITB then your friend just paved the way. Now you know she's about that life. You still win!deadsperm
    • "she's about that life" says it all...robotron3k
    • the whole ... wakes me up fucking part. needs a little explanation. please preceedCALLES
    • She’s going through a divorce. She’s a mess. Why would I not be supportive and put her needs before mine? I have loads of women friends who I don’t want to fuckIanbolton
    • ya. its a fine line. but looks like she needed that tooCALLES
    • If I was playing the long game it would be because she’s been a mess and I’m probably being protective of my own well-being. So yeah, my intentions are genuineIanbolton
    • Haha, what part of being woken up to the sound of two people having sex needs explaining? I should’ve got some photos right?!Ianbolton
    • what gnash and calles said. don't be naive pretending there is a high-road. you got outplayed. period.pr2
    • high-road os being honest about your feeling and desires not giving into what you think the society wants from you.pr2
    • You dodged a bullet! Move on Capt. Savajo.HijoDMaite
    • @Hijo is right. If you'd fucked her, couple of days later you'd hear that she fucked smbdy else, that would mess u up right when you were falling for herBeeswax
    • Then the friendship will be awkward, you'd try to get her back, she'd say that she wants to be free for a while, and all that bs. You really dodged a bullet.Beeswax
    • Sounds like a nice girl really, wonder what caused the divorce??robotron3k
    • You’re right. For sure. But it still bummed me out. Cheers for the support - in all its forms! QBN advice columnsIanbolton
    • so you're helping this woman through her divorce, and then she has a sleepover with you and some other dude and he fucks her before you?monospaced
    • I guess you all really hate who she's actually still married to. Damn.monospaced
    • I’ve only known her a few months and don’t really know the guy and trying to just be supportive. Maybe I’m the fool for getting even slightly involved?Ianbolton
    • We all got pissed which obviously didn’t help thingsIanbolton
    • well what i am trying to say also is that believe it or not. women like to have inconsequential mindless sex also. It is not only a scenario of you takingCALLES
    • advantage off. but if you only know her for a couple of months sex had to be in your minbd the entire time as the first feeling towards herCALLES
    • so the other guy is your friend... her friend? another random? sorry to be so into this. this story has me captivated and its helping my friday go by quickCALLES
    • She's going to regret it in the morning. Now you get to hear how your friend took advantage of her etc etc. You're the friend not him. This is when you swoop insea_sea
    • haha CALLES.Nairn
    • That's if you're still interested in her. Everyone wants sex especially if booze is involved. This is where you straight up tell her it should have been you.sea_sea
    • You have been happily placed in the friendzone. She loudly banged another guy in earshot of you.capn_ron
    • did you hear her asking your friend if she can call him Ian?CALLES
    • Ian:
      https://pbs.twimg.co…      monospaced
    • If you're having regerts and still wanna hit that now you know all you need to do is get her krunk.deadsperm
    • Aye Ian - grab her krunk!Nairn
    • Hit that like a wife that doesn't listen!deadsperm
    • sea_sea FTWzarkonite
    • Haha, gross.i_was
    • Sounds like even if you did like her you're not too much into have seconds...I think most guys aren't into that.robotron3k
    • post separation drunk sex isn't friendship, it's opportunistic.imbecile
    • Mating strategies... https://youtu.be/LOY…shapesalad
    • so wait? you're bummed you didn't get to take advantage of an emotionally fragile women... first? and that has you bummed out?imbecile
    • you really think she's thinking about you (or the other guy, or any other guy) in a serious relationship right now? she needs time to be herself again.imbecile
    • "friend"imbecile
    • I’m just bummed out at not knowing what I feel. She’s fragile and going through some heavy shit but true, she can sleep with who she likes. I’ll talk to herIanbolton
    • ^pango
    • I'm reluctantly agreeing with imbecile.. She's not ready for anything right now.sea_sea
    • She ready for somethings, alright. She real ready.deadsperm
    • lolsea_sea
    • Let’s address everyone’s real question here, did she have a nice rack?irrelevant
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