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    At the studios where I work there's a girl who I guessed straight away is at least a little bit lesbian. Ok, so fuck, no one cares. But she's the sort of woman who reacts disapprovingly any time a male casts a glance her way, intended or otherwise. Instant sourness: 'ok, fuckme - sorry?'.

    It turns out she's slept with a friend of mine - a male one. I found this out when he said that she wouldn't serve him at the bar, so he was having to ask people to buy his drinks for him whilst she was on shift. fucking lol.

    Now, my male friend here is a filthy French bastard - clearly a louche motherfucker. I mean, he's like a coke-snorting, heavy-drinking chef version of Remi Gualliard - an over-grown boy; a total chancer.

    We all love (/loathe) him, and he's fundamentally an alright bloke - but he's more fundamentally a broken slut who would fuck anything with a pulse. It's categorically obvious what sort of a guy he is.

    So this daft bint sleeps with the absolute worst example of masculinity from her perspective and... lo and fucking behold, doesn't manage to reprogram him, doesn't bend him to her wont, does suffer the only fate that she should've ever reasonably expected - he'd had his way and fucked off. Game over.

    So now the cycle of hatred is cranked and spun, her worst suspicions about maledom confirmed once again.

    But I can only think - girl, what the fuck's wrong with your radar? You got everything you ever should've expected, and no more. Silly, naive girl.

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    Anyway, I write this here as I wonder if certain people are destined to seek out in opposites traits they actually despise. The sharpness of their perception blunted by their own conceits and inability to see beyond themselves and their own limitations. Hey, we all have them.

    I write this in reference to certain displays of misogyny on QBN.

    Not all women are the same. Not all women are bad. Not all women are virgin angels sent forth to simply Be, Perfectly.

    If you ever find yourself criticising an entire gender for gender's sake, perhaps you should question yourself, not them?

    • "she's the sort of woman who reacts disapprovingly any time a male casts a glance her way, intended or otherwise. Instant sourness: 'ok, fuckme - sorry?"robotron3k
    • sorry, what's your point about misogyny??robotron3k
    • Yeah, she pre-judges the opposite sex based on her own, entirely poor, perspective.detritus
    • if you run into an asshole in the morning, you ran into an asshole. If you run into assholes all day, you're the asshole.imbecile
    • Read the last paragraph again.monospaced
    • She's the ying to your yang.detritus
    • @robo, obv.
      +1 imbecile - i use that as a guiding light for my darker days.
      detritus
    • You're overthinking, she probably wanted a French fuk boi, but like all modern women, when the fuk boi doesnt call back, they absolutely lose their shiterobotron3k
    • Fair enough, but there's a little more to the background that i've said here - already wrote way too much. She was genuinely, apparently, oblivious.detritus
    • "all modern women" oh robofadein11
    • But consciously-so, i mean.detritus
    • haha, shit, i missed that fade.
      Jesus. robo - you're an alright dude, but fuck me if you have a weird view on women. From my perspective anyway
      detritus
    • er.. I don't mean 'holier than thou' perspective - i'm a schmuck. Just a third person perspective from Blighty.detritus
    • I agree with this. People need to be less bigoted. Seriously.docpoz
    • your buddy?
      http://images.thesar…
      _niko
    • You like how i slipped that in fade? Hihirobotron3k
    • By God he wishes, _niko.detritus
    • not a chance she was oblivious to who he was. some people chose partners that they think they deserve, not what they actually want.Gnash
    • her reaction is likely self-loathing redirected. not a gender thing, just a broken person thing.Gnash
    • next time, don't glance at her, do this: https://media.giphy.…shapesalad
    • If her suspicions are that he only wanted sex, then she is right, there is nothing wrong with that, and she is equally complicit in the transactioncannonball1978
    • Should we expect this girl to make an appearance here anytime soon?sea_sea
    • We live in an age of being triggered and lack of perceptive. Its all "think" one way.mugwart
    • That said she's probably hurting really bad and might lost a part of herself. I speak from my experience. I was naive got manipulated.mugwart
    • hah, sea_sea, no - not here, nothing to do with me! :)detritus
    • "I guessed straight away is at least a little bit lesbian"
      "So this daft bint"
      "displays of misogyny on QBN"
      face_melter
    • haha, alright, touchy - although I'm wondering why on earth perception of her innate characteristics makes me misognynistic, but if that's your preference..detritus
    • tbh, I thought she was 100% lesbian when I first met her - I used to hang around with the Stoke Newington lesbian massive - and she's very much them.detritus
    • ..so I was genuinely surprised when it turns out she'd slept with my chum. Hence "at least a little bit".detritus
    • and if she slept with my chum, she's a daft bint, in any language.detritus
    • the amount of lesbians I know who sleep with mindless men expecting something spectacular is insane. Like your view on society rests on this one chance meeting?Ianbolton
    • It's absolutely stupid.Ianbolton
    • AS FUCK!Ianbolton
    • I agree with Ian, not only do lesbians sleep with guys (girls like sex too btw) but so do gay guys. She probably just needed to get screwed no strings attached.sea_sea
    • Perhaps, but the fallout from their tryst indicates everything otherwise. And i'm not relying on his word on it all - there's a biggish community here...detritus
    • She cute?Maaku
    • Dunno, hard to tell from behind the specs and scorn.detritus
    • hmm. the gay guys i know are grossed out by pussy so Im not sure about that one sea sea. maybe they are bidocpoz
    • Maybe doc or just desperate.sea_sea

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