Marriage.

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  • JoeGrizzly0

    I guess we'll be having the BIG talk soon. I mean I've tried to talk to her about things two or three times today but its just like a brink wall. It's like i'm talking to her father. I'm willing to admit i'm wrong in some of the things I do but she just isn't. Her father dealt with so much with her mother. Bit his tonge so much. Biggest thing about her mom was she never apologized for anything. stubborn full of pride.

    I just don't know If I'm that guy who willing to get walked all over his whole life. Maybe because her father wasn't the best of looking guys or he didn't have a lot of pride that was fine but I'm just not prepared for the kind of life. I don't want my kids to see that and realize that's how a long lasting marriage works.

    • IMO better to stick it out than to teach your kids that if it gets to hard get divorced. If it is not physical abuse better for your kids that you stay married.imnotaplumber
    • kids that you stay married.imnotaplumber
    • or you teach the kids to not get married and make the same mistakescarabin
    • love doesn't need a contractscarabin
    • Marriage is a sacrifice, you give up your life for them but ideally it should be a 2 way thing.imnotaplumber
    • why would you start a relationship with a sacrifice, honestly that sounds absurdscarabin
    • @scarabin Having kids is a sacrifice too. You give up your free time, money ... because you love your kids.imnotaplumber
    • scarabin, just let it be dude. we all know you don't believe in marriage. just let it be.lvl_13
    • ...and reading down a bit further, you can call me an ass. you get it. i'm sorry.lvl_13
    • Getting married and not getting married are pretty much the same thing. Whatever people prefer, let them do it. No one is "right" about this.Jaline

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