Divorce just got ugly
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- CALLES0
Captain Ron Ready To Attack And Invade The Pink Fortress!™
- CALLES0
i live close to a Walk? there are stores. restaurant.. bars cafes whatever a bunch of stuff like that. whenever i break up a relationship i try to avoid those places. everywhere you see there is happy couples holding hands and having dinner looking at each other in the eye. but that is mostly in the first 2 weeks or something. then i go back to being a wolf in a sheeps costume
- I need to get to Florida now and hang with you Calles. i bet i could get some action quick and feel good again!capn_ron
- season starting soon. when everywhere else gets coldCALLES
- actually i heard san diego and miami are the 2 cities in miami with the most beautiful women? true?CALLES
- very true. i have a lot to pick from, so things could get interesting.capn_ron
- sofakingbanned0
Sorry to hear things are not going so well.
If you're feeling down and need some one to kick it with I'm right around the corner. Another SD QBN drinks sounds like a great idea. I'm down whenever.
- CALLES0
its true about time! you will be ok!
- nocomply0
Hey Ron so sorry to hear that man, but sounds like you're hanging in there. Maybe another QBN drink night is in order to make up for the alcohol you missed out on at the bonfire.
- Milan0
time cures everything, every day that goes by, you'll feel much better about the situation
- baseline_shift0
oh yeah, and think about how awesome it is that you dont have to change your name back or whatever. Thats cause you are a/the MAN!
- capn_ron0
Hey everyone, you guys really outdid yourselves. I still feel like shit today, but I have had more smiles on my face catching up on what everyone said here than normal.
Just to catch you up, my friends had a bonfire for me last night and it was perfect. The funny thing is that we didn't even drink, we just sat, watched fire and shot the shit. I am realizing the more I talk about it the less pressure on my chest.
So I want to offer a huge hug to everyone who chimed in on this thread. You all made today a better day than yesterday and I appreciate it.
- baseline_shift0
My advice would be dont let this make you resent women. Some bitch broke my heart a couple years ago, and i was messed up for months. During this period of heartache, i somehow came to resent women, especially pretty ones. It took like a year or two to get out of this rut.
During this 'rut' i had a tough time meeting and attracting women. Especially good ones. I wound up only interacting with subpar ladies, and having one night stands, which ultimately made me resent them more.
Let me assure you, they are not all venomous, heart breaking succubi. Take some time to yourself, get in good shape, smoke a ton of pot, spend time with good friends and fam. Do some paintings or learn to play guitar or something. Be productive. Get your head straight, and the nice girls will follow.
- CALLES0
sorry to hear man. take a couple of thing that you would like to burn to the bonfire(it's ok not to be environmentally conscious in moments like this) being a little bit of a pyro might help
- < thisscarabin
- Fucking great advice. A little late for me, but there will be more bonfires.capn_ron
- NO-NO. NO FIRES IN CALI. THANK YOU!akrokdesign
- :-Pakrokdesign
- scarabin0
also, listen to this song.
it's the ultimate breakup song for men.
- akrokdesign0
hey you reached the bottom, it can only go up from here. :-)
- i'm not sure yet, hopefully. i am ready for the uphill.capn_ron
- squidy0
I know the process and pain you speak of. I too went through divorce last Feb and am still not feeling "normal". Having to leave my house was difficult, but even more difficult was learning how to be alone again.
The best advice I can give is enjoy the new found freedom, and fill your time with creative projects. Also, rebound sessy works wonders ;)
- raf0
A lot of the emotions related to what you're going through have physical roots. Splitting with someone close alters your brain chemistry. In this respect it is similar to having someone close die. You're likely drugged with hormones now. I remember I was full of adrenaline for a week after a bad breakup and the good outcome was it would get me so tired I'd sleep at night easily, despite chasing thoughts in my head.
Current situation is actually good - it will help you forget about the idea of running a business together. It is possible that it would work, but I'd advise against it. If you have no kids, there is no reason you should meet more often than once in a few years.
And one thing - in a year or two you will be like new, happier than ever before. Give it some time, that's all :)
- iCanHazQBN0
please see Chick of the Day thread
- sorry, good luck with your deal. you'll get through it no matter how hard it seems.iCanHazQBN
- lol, what a shitty attempt at trying to give a damn. i'll step out now.iCanHazQBN
- no, that was good. I still check that thread out religiously. thanks.capn_ron