Divorce just got ugly
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- prophet0NE0
Could it be worse than Jon & Kate? He's now a douche nozzle, everyone knows it and TLC just fired his ass.
- identity0
take a few days off work - go on a cross-state drive - visit a friend - visit family... let people take care of you for a bit...
But take some time to clear your head... Drive 90mph with the windows down...
- capn_ron0
I'll tell you one thing, i'm going skating tomorrow and that 6 foot bowl better be ready for the punishment I am going to unleash on it.
I just realized I am listening to depressing music as well, but i don't care. I am depressed and will chipper up when i am F'in ready.
- good plan. take the ipod and slayer's seasons in the abyss too...prophet0NE
- identity0
give her whatever she wants, don't fight, let things happen...
If you can get somewhere before, you can do it again, and the sooner that this venom and negativity is out of your life the happier you will be.Take the path of least resistance - it'll make you feel better in the long-term...
- good words. I guess with the newness of it i need to practice this,capn_ron
- Awesome advice. Sincerely.Lifeinvector
- prophet0NE0
I guess it depends on what you mean by turned sour...
Regardless, you have to simply move forward and stay positive. It sucks I suppose as things aren't going to plan. But sometimes you have to forget it and start fresh. I find things have a way of turning around eventually. And almost always, you're at a point where it seems like there's no way it's going to get better, but it will. Just not the way you expect it to.
- Yeah, it is so fresh, there is no bright future ahead. But i'm changing that asap.capn_ron
- capn_ron0
I just kicked her out of the house last night and told her I didn't want to see her until it was over. She went on a "date" and told me. Total crap and made me feel terrible.
- the wheel of spite has begun. Shes looking to be a victim and to hurt you at the same time. Its a double whammy but the truth is something in side of her is terrified and hurt. Dont let that crap get into your soul or youll be no better.Countryman
- capn_ron0
Yeah, i'm riding the rollercoaster right now and i'm on the bottom of the first hil, so it goes up hopefully tomorrow. I hate depression and being sad. Can i skip to 6 months from now please!!!
- JackRyan0
Take a couple of days and get away by yourself. Don't have any contact with her. Plan all of your next steps out, and then work the plan. It will be hard, but try to either swallow any feelings of love for her, or drink the pain away. But, get out of that situation as quickly as possible. Its like ripping bandages off...the quicker the better.
- and watch Run Ronnie Run during these couple of days, a couple of times.mg33
- mg330
- that movie is AWESOME. definite recommendationsteven_segal
- wow that copy on the back is seriously shitty slapped on therefreitag
- another movie is http://www.theartoft… a little cheesy but something to think aboutzaq
- freitag0
ride shit out.. that's the only way.
i am massively deep shit lately and there's very little in my power to do about it, so same boat.
- steven_segal0
go get some hookers man. like they say, "at least hookers are honest about their prices", *ahem* or so I've heard.
- eh ?erikjonsson
- ya know, hookers vs committed relationshipssteven_segal
- so, you really go to hookers?akrokdesign
- k0na_an0k0
i can make this all go away for $50 and a bean burrito from taco bell.
seriously though. i can't say that i know what you're going through or how hard it must be, i can only give you this bit of advice... what would tyler durden do? then go from there.
best wishes capn_ron.
- capn_ron
So my wife and I were going great until this weekend. We were going to get divorced and be friends and keep the business going. But then it turned sour and now I can't even imagine talking to her again. I am sad and frustrated and now tired since I can't sleep at night. I know this is not design related, but we are both designers, so it is related.
Anyone have any experience or can anyone lift my spirits for a millisecond to make me feel slightly better? Please?