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- ninjasavant0
If there's no former reason for subtext and you hang out as a group all the time and your SOs are out of town for the weekend she's probably just looking to not be bored. I wouldn't worry about it until you have an actual reason to. Sounds innocent enough and you may just be opening a bigger problem than it needs to be.
- He should go then and watch out for an unintentional nipple snip from her robe - that would tell!raf
- ninja.... dont be lame. tell the truth about how you really feel.imnotadesigner
- raf0
Either way, the friendship with the couple as you knew it is gone, never to come back. It will be err.. different from now on.
A question nobody asked.. are you going to tell your wife?
- gramme0
Agree with SteveJobs. Tell your friend. He'll respect you for life. It's wildly inappropriate for a married woman to invite a male friend over to hang out one on one, especially the way she put the email... dinner, drinks, and then the capstone—she offered to let you "crash" there. That means she wants to sleep with you dude, no question about it.
If my wife did that, I'd be livid. And if she sent that invitation to a friend of mine, I'd sure as hell want him to tell me.
- Corvo20
How did you get that e-mail in the first place?
- SteveJobs0
that's an open invitation for sex if i've ever seen one.
i don't care how happily married someone is. when they get drunk and they are alone with someone of the opposite sex, morals and sound judgement go out the window.
it's not just a dumb saying - bro's before hoe's.
- You cannot be serious unless you're 17 and just met your first girlfriend.GRAC
- iCanHazQBN0
BANG THE HELL OUT OF HER.
- robco0
only one thing you can do - set up a hidden camera.
dont think of it as spying... more like educating yourself about a very important investment. i think if it was most people here, we'd be "mildly curious" and thats all i would call it, not an issue with trust....
....yet
- version30
be alone
realize the mistakes you made
deal with that by posting it on the board too.
keep a blog
we need entertained
- sublocked0
qbn.com/soapopera
- digdre0
yea, instal spy cams and post the result on here
- digdre0
play her off
- what does that mean?Arvizu
- http://playhimoffkey…digdre
- LOLiCanHazQBN
- Knuckleberry0
okay.... if he is your neighbor why would he need to sleep over? He lives next door.
It should be nothing but that is weird.
- Sorry only read your first part.Knuckleberry
- they live about an hour and a half from us, sorry about the confusion, not neighbors... so then it's cool now?Arvizu
- sleepyfatso0
tough call I'd say. I mean have you hung out with his wife on your won before? Had dinner or lunch or whatever just the 2 of you? I'd say to your buddy when he is back; " Oh hey, tell your wife thanks for the dinner offer on Saturday, I had other things on, but maybe we can all get together next weekend." Then see how he takes it...
- scarabin0
+1 for asking advice in the matter
- capn_ron0
Or you could just go over, give it to her and leave it at that.
- capn_ron0
So now you're obligated to tell the other guy, right? either way, it was a come on for sure.
- If it was, then I am. I really just hate trusting my own assessment in these matters.Arvizu
- understandable. could you ask her? It would be strange, but probably make you feel better.capn_ron
- there's an adult thing to do. no wonder it didn't occur to me! That actually makes perfect sense. now, phrasing...Arvizu
- phrasing will be key in this one. good luck if it ever happens.capn_ron