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- Arvizu
my wife and I are friends with a couple whom the husband of (he's a wedding DJ) received this email from my wife:
"...wanna hang out tonight? we can stay in and cook and drink beer and watch family guy reruns or we can ~walk~ to all the bars. lemme know. i dunno what time your wedding gig is on saturday, but you're welcomed to crash here if you want."
The circumstances: We're all friends and free from suspicion. The email is sent as I 'm on a weekend sailing trip and his wife is out state. There have never been any transgressions.
Just as a test of my own objectivity, I ask:
Is this email suggestive,—or is it free from offense?
- digdre0
trow her out.
- doesnotexist0
are you saying 'walk to all the bars' means, 'fucking to all the bars'?
I bet it means they're just going to get mad high while walking. that's my 2¢
- chris_himself0
history / the relationships are key here, had i read it as my wife sending it to one of our friends i'd be WTF
can i read some of your emails to your friends wife?
- nothing ever has warranted concern, I'm not sure this does either, just trying to gauge my reaction by that of others...Arvizu
- doesnotexist0
using "welcomed" is suspicious.
- visionary0
to the curb
- scarabin0
WTF.
your wife invites a man to go drinking and then sleep over (!) while you're away. that's a motherfucking transgression in itself, whether it ever goes down or not.
did she ask your permission first?
did you find this yourself or were you copied on it?
- scarabin0
and walking to bars at night, sloshed, is fucking romantic bro
- janne760
kill it with fire
- invo0
You should send the same email to your friends wife..see what happens ;)
- visionary0
is this like marsellus wallace having vinnie vega watching his wife for him?
- janne760
send a polite email to his wife.. but be more to the point.
ask her for a nice harmless night out and then later at home with candle light she may suck on your cock until she gags or something..
then you will find out how the situation really is...
- doesnotexist0
"sailing trip"
- scarabin0
put a keystroke logger on your computer NOW
- visionary0
nah call her out on it. keep that guy as a friend. a good friend.
- are we sure that's how he got the email, from the guy?capn_ron
- he says his wife sent itplash
- i missed that, so his wife sent it to him and the other guy?capn_ron
- nah the wife sent it to the other guy and the other guy passed it on to him.visionary
- wait; no im wrong. the dj dude got it from Arvizu's wife.plash
- oh, i see. thanks for the clarification.capn_ron
- capn_ron0
It would make me suspicious no matter how good of a friend the guy was. Imagine you did it with his wife, how would she feel/think?
- visionary0
"...whom the husband of (he's a wedding DJ) received this email from my wife"
- visionary0
personally I'd get get divorced so as to keep me pot of gold
- is intent enough to presume infidelity? nothing has happened yet..plash
- key log + private eyevisionary
- you said yet, that means it is bound to happen. look into this.capn_ron
- yeah dude; id flip out. that shit ain't right..plash
- i'm with you plash. it would make me very suspicious. if it was nothing she would explancapn_ron