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- utopian0
Any pics of your wife?
We at QBN will be honest to let you know if we would "hit it" or not!
-QBN Citizen
- miesvan0
take the wife in the sailing trip with you
- _salisae_0
sounds completely innocent to me – just tell her you have other plans and get on with your life.
- if anything it sounds like she's trying to prevent you two from ~drunk driving~_salisae_
- i mean ffs .. he's a wedding dj. who's gonna risk their marriage for a wedding dj??_salisae_
- HAHAHAHAHlocustsloth
- If you read the email as if it's coming from the husband rather than the wife, it's totally innocuouslocustsloth
- sea_sea0
that's right! you have a wife! so if i was you i would make sure she (your friends wife) understands you don't want your wife to misunderstand the situation either! don't make a big deal about it. again, it might just be an innocent gesture and it will only make it that much more uncomfortable when you all get together again.
- locustsloth0
Another thing is, have you or do you intend on telling your wife about this? Cause if she finds out for herself that there may have been a proposition, and you didn't tell her, she WILL assume the worst.
In all cases with all parties involved, i'd approach it like it was an innocent gesture that seemed weird to you, rather than a sexual proposition.
And like sea_sea said, approaching her first (via email) would be the safest route for all relationships involved
- sea_sea0
why don't you ask her if she thinks her husband would be ok for you to be over there in the first place? maybe she just wants to hang out with you because she's lonely and enjoys your company? it's not all about sex you know? don't go over unless you know your friend's aware.
- +1, i was thinking along the same lines, but didn't know how to put itlocustsloth
- this makes it clear to her, that you don't want to screw your friend over and gives her a chance to re think the situation. why ruin someones life because of it? seriously.sea_sea
- why ruin someones life because of it? seriously.sea_sea
- imnotadesigner0
is this your buddy on the boat?
- "deadliest catch without the crabs, we're almost out of gas, call the A-Rabs!" Genius!Andrew_D
- make sure to wax, use your moms nair... you'lll be amazed when I cum on your hair....imnotadesigner
- .... and they're making millionsimnotadesigner
- "...and go port to port, everytime I cum, I produce a Quart..." - hahahautopian
- Corvo20
I'm not only confused, but also scared.
- TheBlueOne0
I'm confused. Who exactly is on the sailing trip?
- imnotadesigner0
- fucking lol!SteveJobs
- someone needs to animate this somehow...TheBlueOne
- Is that Bryant or Gotham Rounded?gramme
- 7point340
well, i'm retarded, but since you've already thought enough to put yourself in someone else's shoes, you should have the answer.
tell him.
- 7point340
you're married, correct? i would say that this involves a good bit of knowledge of your wife and how she conducts herself. i would think that anything that seemed odd or unusual is a gut reaction to the situation and you know it isn't normal behavior.
if you thought it was fine you wouldn't have asked.
if she doesn't admit it or if you ask her if she has plans and she says anything else besides what's in that email i think you have your answer. i'd print it out just in case.
- ah nevermind me i misread the original post7point34
- http://www.qbn.com/t…raf
- http://www.qbn.com/t…emukid
- ah, that's what i get for not reading the entire thread7point34
- i thought i was going crazy. even reread the first post, haha7point34
- raf0
Have you smoked weed with them? I'm one of those people who don't really like it. However, one thing it does it turns off the cognitive dissonance blocking mechanism. So, when you're stoned, if your friend's wife wants to fuck you, you stop being blind about it and just see it.
- if it turns it off then that means you'd be more aware of the uncomfortable feeling of cognitive dissonanceimnotadesigner
- you mean to say it blocks the cognitive dissonanceimnotadesigner
- Shit, I'm not going to Ireland now.Corvo2
- Why not Corvo? We can cook, watch tv and you can crash here.. My fiancee will go to a friend 1.5 hrs away, he emailedraf
- @imnotadesigner it turns off the mechanism that prevents you from seeing the dissonance. You see truth.raf
- If you're an Obama voter, CD prevents you from seeing he gave a trillion of taxpayer money to wall street buddies :)raf
- I dont believe a word of what you're saying rafimnotadesigner
- <<<< see what I did thereimnotadesigner
- Fucking memecube!raf
- all it means is that it loosens you upvisionary
- For me, it loosens my attention span and short term memory rendering me incommunicado. But it also reveals ppls emotionsraf
- SteveJobs0
i'm still unclear. are you married as well?
perhaps ask if your wife can join. if she immediately shows less interest you can be sure what she's after and inform your friend of the situation.
if her invitation isn't the subtextual booty call we all interpret it to be, and while i suppose for some people this casual type of friendship is permissable - for most it's not.
- visionary0
you have no choice but to rat
- PIITB0
What is your relationship with the friends wife in the first place? Would you fuck her if you were not married or better yet do you think she would fuck you if she wasn't married? If so then I would say that this is an invitation to have sexytime.
- imnotadesigner0
or maybe your wife AND your friend are both in on it and are just testing to see if you're ok with it... then boom boom
- imnotadesigner0
dude if you friend is sending this to you means HE found it suspicious.... are you high man.... shes looking for some boom boom, obviously.
Million dollar question is: What are you gonna do about it???
- emukid0
the email was really sent by the husband from the wife's account. he wants to test you and your friendship.