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- robco0
only one thing you can do - set up a hidden camera.
dont think of it as spying... more like educating yourself about a very important investment. i think if it was most people here, we'd be "mildly curious" and thats all i would call it, not an issue with trust....
....yet
- iCanHazQBN0
BANG THE HELL OUT OF HER.
- SteveJobs0
that's an open invitation for sex if i've ever seen one.
i don't care how happily married someone is. when they get drunk and they are alone with someone of the opposite sex, morals and sound judgement go out the window.
it's not just a dumb saying - bro's before hoe's.
- You cannot be serious unless you're 17 and just met your first girlfriend.GRAC
- Corvo20
How did you get that e-mail in the first place?
- gramme0
Agree with SteveJobs. Tell your friend. He'll respect you for life. It's wildly inappropriate for a married woman to invite a male friend over to hang out one on one, especially the way she put the email... dinner, drinks, and then the capstone—she offered to let you "crash" there. That means she wants to sleep with you dude, no question about it.
If my wife did that, I'd be livid. And if she sent that invitation to a friend of mine, I'd sure as hell want him to tell me.
- raf0
Either way, the friendship with the couple as you knew it is gone, never to come back. It will be err.. different from now on.
A question nobody asked.. are you going to tell your wife?
- ninjasavant0
If there's no former reason for subtext and you hang out as a group all the time and your SOs are out of town for the weekend she's probably just looking to not be bored. I wouldn't worry about it until you have an actual reason to. Sounds innocent enough and you may just be opening a bigger problem than it needs to be.
- He should go then and watch out for an unintentional nipple snip from her robe - that would tell!raf
- ninja.... dont be lame. tell the truth about how you really feel.imnotadesigner
- emukid0
the email was really sent by the husband from the wife's account. he wants to test you and your friendship.
- imnotadesigner0
dude if you friend is sending this to you means HE found it suspicious.... are you high man.... shes looking for some boom boom, obviously.
Million dollar question is: What are you gonna do about it???
- imnotadesigner0
or maybe your wife AND your friend are both in on it and are just testing to see if you're ok with it... then boom boom
- PIITB0
What is your relationship with the friends wife in the first place? Would you fuck her if you were not married or better yet do you think she would fuck you if she wasn't married? If so then I would say that this is an invitation to have sexytime.
- visionary0
you have no choice but to rat
- SteveJobs0
i'm still unclear. are you married as well?
perhaps ask if your wife can join. if she immediately shows less interest you can be sure what she's after and inform your friend of the situation.
if her invitation isn't the subtextual booty call we all interpret it to be, and while i suppose for some people this casual type of friendship is permissable - for most it's not.
- raf0
Have you smoked weed with them? I'm one of those people who don't really like it. However, one thing it does it turns off the cognitive dissonance blocking mechanism. So, when you're stoned, if your friend's wife wants to fuck you, you stop being blind about it and just see it.
- if it turns it off then that means you'd be more aware of the uncomfortable feeling of cognitive dissonanceimnotadesigner
- you mean to say it blocks the cognitive dissonanceimnotadesigner
- Shit, I'm not going to Ireland now.Corvo2
- Why not Corvo? We can cook, watch tv and you can crash here.. My fiancee will go to a friend 1.5 hrs away, he emailedraf
- @imnotadesigner it turns off the mechanism that prevents you from seeing the dissonance. You see truth.raf
- If you're an Obama voter, CD prevents you from seeing he gave a trillion of taxpayer money to wall street buddies :)raf
- I dont believe a word of what you're saying rafimnotadesigner
- <<<< see what I did thereimnotadesigner
- Fucking memecube!raf
- all it means is that it loosens you upvisionary
- For me, it loosens my attention span and short term memory rendering me incommunicado. But it also reveals ppls emotionsraf
- 7point340
you're married, correct? i would say that this involves a good bit of knowledge of your wife and how she conducts herself. i would think that anything that seemed odd or unusual is a gut reaction to the situation and you know it isn't normal behavior.
if you thought it was fine you wouldn't have asked.
if she doesn't admit it or if you ask her if she has plans and she says anything else besides what's in that email i think you have your answer. i'd print it out just in case.
- ah nevermind me i misread the original post7point34
- http://www.qbn.com/t…raf
- http://www.qbn.com/t…emukid
- ah, that's what i get for not reading the entire thread7point34
- i thought i was going crazy. even reread the first post, haha7point34
- 7point340
well, i'm retarded, but since you've already thought enough to put yourself in someone else's shoes, you should have the answer.
tell him.