Why would you ask?
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- susan-deaux0
lol kona.
gl shellie
- shellie0
it doesnt really matter does it sean?
i think im figuring that out just like everybody else.
- Tara0
shellie,
you seem down to earth and have a lot going for you so you can't blame a guy who is working at a grocery store for being intimidated. I mean this in a nice way. Don't underestimate the male ego and how you being so confident and driven could make him feel like he's not good enough for you. don't worry about it- there is nothing you could have done or said differently. noone came make someone who is insecure feel better about themself.
- uhohseangettio0
Shells do you plan on getting married and having youths?
- shellie0
anzelina, but he says he hates his job at trader joes and he actually did mention he hopes to get it together and do something better. He said he liked childreand and was hoping to do something with children and art, so we had like a 30 second exchange about working with kids at LA county high school of the arts. but then he immediately shot out "im not qualified for that"... which is dumb because you dont need a masters or any special certifications to teach at a private school.
BAH.
- shellie0
I am not married and I am not divorced. I've gone over this before, but hopefully now people will stop asking?
- anzelina0
if it was a punk rock volunteer thing maybe he is against capitalism and that's why he doesn't vibe with you working for an ad agency.
- shellie0
he didnt call back but he did email this morning. i posted above.
- uhohseangettio0
whoa shellie very interesting story...That happened to me, she was way older than me... :D
- gruntt0
jaz... turns out she wasn't.
- JazX0
i haven't had a chance to read all of your post but... are you pregnant?
gruntt
(Jun 22 05, 11:03)uh oh
- ThreeSevenFive0
Also, it's tough to get out of a rut that pays well. I have a friend that graduated with me and he now works for "The Joe" and makes bank. So, now that he's up to 35K he's not willing to enter the market (no pun intended) at all.
Hope it works out.
- exador10
hey shellie..
just to chime in here, i coulda sworn you were married too..
i thought you'd said something about it a few years back..
(good lord, how long have we been on NT anyhow..)
anyways, don't mean to pry...if you weren't i must've gotten confused with someone else, and if you were, but aren't anymore, then it's none of my business anyhow...
as far as this dude is concerened..i'd pretty much drop it...he's probably a cool guy and all, but its also very likely he's stuck in a wicked huge rut in his life, and he's got to get himself together.
also, it can be pretty demoralizing for someone in that position to see how far you, a younger woman have gotten so far...
it sucks, but thats kind of the way it is sometimes..don't mean you can't be friends, but it might be a bit dicey..
cheers shellie..
ex
- k770
i love how you dodged the 'did he call back or not?" q. and ain't you married? haha. classic female questino dodging, subject changing. i love it.
- shellie0
v3 is just trying to make himself a designer sandwhich. mmm mmm mmmm toasty.
- grafholic0
where's his pic?
- todelete__20
more like version is trying to wollymamuth on y'all
(did you see his pic??)
- grafholic0
HAHAHAHA gruntt.
speaking of which, we had softball game the other day, and we had "tits" who was hitting on all guys at the softball and "dick" who was hitting on all girls at the softball.
interestingly, however, tits never hit on dick and neither did dick..
- brandelec0
version is such a mac daddy
- gruntt0
version is trying to snake on y'all.
be carefull.
=P