Jevad
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- swollenelbow0
100% pure mexican hotness. she looks like me, but like a girl, without the beard stubble =)
nic, just roll with it, this is porbably the worst thing that can happen to someone. we've seen all the pics that you put up and you guys looked really happy together. if she wants to put that behind her for whatever reason, i'm sure there are plenty of other girls who would love their own jevad, plenty.
you are a man, be strong, and don't sign anything before reading it carefully. godspeed.
- tkmeister0
i am not a psychic, but i have a feeling she'll come back. i mean, who'd leave Nic Tinworth??? you the man!
- jevad0
: )
- vb_0
true, jevad is a stud. and i don't say that in teh gay kinda way.
:o)
- mattyd0
next time you talk to her, say something like 'i dont know if you know this, but im kind of a big deal'...
all joking aside, i am confident everything will work out for you. good things come to good people.
- Lesk0
I wanna live in the hong kong airport. Pimpy.
- lifeinbinary0
i, too, say he is a stud. but i say it in hopes of getting in his pants.
- Gorbie0
i'd leave my girl for jevad anyday.
- arthur0
My thoughts are with you Jevad. Better days are ahead.
- jevad0
you know what I am going to do?
I am going to go into a studio and write and record a song for her.
I have written 0 songs since I have been here...after being in a band for like...ever.
if that doesn;t speak volumes I don;t know what will....
- lifeinbinary0
awesome! post the song in FMT or even JMT.
then we'll send it to pitchfork for review.
- brandelec0
do it!
- lifeinbinary0
i also think that the song should have backing vocals by all of us NTers.
band can be called
Jevad and the Threadkillers.
- pascii0
you are so in love nic!
i invite you to spend some time in switzerland this july. i will look after a house and me flat in zurich will be empty for the whole of july. you can stay here alone or.... with whoever u want man,
- thejumpoff0
Jevad is Bitch Made
schwäney
- kbags0
YES! music will serve you well...yes, please go write. try to find the person that she fell in love with and if you like who that person was/is, then be that person. you're a little older and a little wiser now jevad, and if it isn't you, then maybe you will answer a question you didn't think to ask yourself until that point.
you'll speak eventually, and that is the time to deal with questions and answers regarding the relationship.
for now, don't rush it, you're both in a world of pain and it's difficult to see clearly under such duress.
- gfro0
So, just she check out these treads on NT? She has to know you go here to vent.
- vb_0
awesome! post the song in FMT or even JMT.
then we'll send it to pitchfork for review.
lifeinbinary
(May 17 05, 15:30)yeah, and if you can post it on a thursday, all the better!
;P
seriously, that's rad, mister! go for it.
- ghandolf0
" You could also counterfile for 'separation'"
I did not know about this. I am still reeling that she has actually started on papers without even talking to me.
her judgement in my opinion is being clouded by the way she feels right now and I firmly believe that given time - 3. 6 whatever amount of months, that she will 'see the light'.
to that respect I have decided that I will not be signing any divorce papers that she may want me to.
We still need to talk - we havent spoken since sunday - but I need a lot more time before I can do that
jevad
(May 17 05, 14:19)*****************
Absolutely... when I went through mine, in my state, there is a 45 day 'cooling off' or waiting period, so couples don't do this while they are emotional or irrational. No one can force you to do this... your life may be miserable, but she can't force a divorce on you...
I think, as you say, take some time, get some clarity, think about the future and what you want, then arrange a time/place to meet and talk. She may realize what's really left to pick from out there, and want to reconsider.
When you do talk again, stay positive, discuss only the future and how it will be different from the past. She loved you once enough to marry you... she could be going through the same thing, we just don't know.
Take time, take care of yourself, think about what you want, then after some time, arrange to talk about it,
This ain't over yet by a long shot...Best of luck, man...
- swollenelbow0
yeah man, go at it richie valens style, oooohhh dooonnaaaa....
oh donna...