The trouble with you... ?
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- mikotondria3
The trouble with me, as people who know me might circumspectly discuss between each other, is that sometimes I lack vision, get bored easily and can be increasingly snotty about people or ideas that I consider beneath me. I can also be damned lazy and as a result have become a bit fat.
What are other readers' fundamental character flaws ? Everyone can, to be honest, be a right pain in the ass to everyone around them at times, even you - what's the particular way you infuriate your loved ones and colleagues ?
- scarabin0
people are jealous of my giant penis
- because it's attached to you ?
Please clarify.mikotondria3 - it's my cross to bearscarabin
- it's a cross ? Like 2 penises that meet in the middle ?mikotondria3
- wouldn't you like to know? *wiggles eyebrows suggestively*scarabin
- LOL miko!
freak penis scarabin!Hombre_Lobo - actually it's just a bunch of little penises taped togetherscarabin
- ahahahahabigtrick
- like a torrent penis ?mikotondria3
- hahascarabin
- Better throttle your upload rates in that case, Scarabin...detritus
- same hereCALLES
- because it's attached to you ?
- abettertomorrow0
The problem with me is that I have no problems.
But thanks for sharing yours in such detail brah
- are you Pauly, from Jersey Shore ?mikotondria3
- Pauly Shore? Noabettertomorrow
- studderine0
sometimes i talk too much. ironic for a studderine.
- Hombre_Lobo0
err, i dunno what my flaws would be.
maybe its that im a 6'8" man mountain with a jaw line that makes the ladies swoon?- So pride, then.gramme
- hehe
nah im joking, i hate arrogance.Hombre_Lobo
- Hombre_Lobo0
AHA! studderline reminded me.
because im very social and can get on most people, i also chat a bit too much, just a bit too friendly, not in a sexual harassment kinda way though.
- yeh, yeh..mikotondria3
- Strange taht you brought the sexual part.intVal
- CanHasQBN0
I don't have a single friend. Not one.
I've never had a meaningful conversation with anybody my entire life.
I feel completely indifferent toward everyone that I've ever met.
I assume people already dislike me the moment they meet me.
I alienate potential friends, and purposely sabotage any notion of a friendship before it has a chance to grow. I don't know why I do this.
I don't think I know how to be a friend or would have anything to offer another person.
I don't know what being in love is like.
I don't know what it is to love, or be loved.
I felt nothing when my mother got cancer.
I didn't visit my father at the hospital when he got sick. Or my brother.
I have suicidal thoughts.
I hate having to pretend that I care... about anything.
I have zero life experience.
I'm a blank slate.The deafening silence of being alone for so long has become unbearable. I don't put the blame on anyone but myself.
I feel silly posting my troubles, when there are so many others with more serious troubles. Things that make my list look like a scraped knee.
- If you're being serious, welcome to life. I would suggest you join a meetup.com group.VikingKingEleven
- Next turn off your TV forever.VikingKingEleven
- Start reading books and pick up a hobby.VikingKingEleven
- then when thats all said and done, join the tea party. :)VikingKingEleven
- I thought you inherited 200k and were moving to Amsterdamabettertomorrow
- Viking- i rarely watch TV, and i read all the time. As far as a hobby, i train/race bicycles.CanHasQBN
- abt- i havent received it yet. and it's not inheritance. You can't assume money will make you happy.CanHasQBN
- No, but freedom (which money provides) certainly does.abettertomorrow
- i'm just not expecting it to. i already make a nice salary, so i've learned long ago that it means nothing if you haveCanHasQBN
- nobody to share it with. we'll see.CanHasQBN
- Well atleast you're grounded and seem to know whats real. Try a meetup.com group.VikingKingEleven
- one thing is, family is very important. Try to connect if possible. Even if it seems hard to do.VikingKingEleven
- Are you Dexter Morgan by chance?maikel
- a lot of this could be just the way you look at things. think positive, organize your life, learn something newscarabin
- are you proud of yourself? a lot of the things you mention seem to relate to 'self-worth'.
(im not trying to sound smart)Hombre_Lobo - no, not proud of myself. i feel like i haven't even done anything to be proud of. i literally haven't done ANYTHINGCanHasQBN
- ..ANYTHING. ie, blank slate.CanHasQBN
- abettertomorrow0
- Everyone hates themselves a little
Welcome to the human raceabettertomorrow - thats what TV has taught you to think.VikingKingEleven
- Oh hey look its the guy who started a thread about Glenn Beck's rally telling other people to turn off the TVabettertomorrow
- and advertising.VikingKingEleven
- I don't own a TV BTW, the picture was just a joke.abettertomorrow
- the glenn beck rally was very good. The message was spot on, i watched it on live stream.VikingKingEleven
- Congrats on the no TV. We have something in common! lolVikingKingEleven
- Everyone hates themselves a little
- mikotondria30
I'm not much trouble today, feeling pretty good.
- gramme0
CanHas, if that's all true then I think you need professional help. That's no way to move through life. Hell, if you were nearby I'd buy you a beer just so you could say you had at least one friend. :)
Me: It all comes down to pride, which I think is the root of all human problems. I tend to make career more important than I should. I'm weak in the area of patience. I tend to take myself too seriously, although I think I've made recent strides in this area. I have a miniscule attention span, but when I'm engaged in a task I can work for hours on end without a break. Otherwise, I can't sustain focus for more than 30 minutes or so.
- Oh, and I used to have a terrible temper. God's slowly knocking off some of the rough edges.gramme
- gramme0
Oh and I'm terrible at taking instructions. I have to take notes in client meetings, or I retain nothing. But for some reason, writing is almost like instant memorization for me. I guess that makes me a visual/kinesthetic learner.
- nadanada0
my anxiety is crippling. and it's going to take away everything i love if i let it... so i'm trying to get it handled.
- Hombre_Lobo0
@canhasQBN
If that is true, i feel bad for you man, but at least you know that these things make you unhappy and are engaging with them, ya know 'the first step' crap.
Where are you based?
You should see a councilor.
My girlfriend is psychologist and she recommend that everyone should see a councilor, regardless even if you are very happy. She says its just great to have someone to talk to about anything with no judgement, that you cant get anywhere else. Not even family can do that because you have to look at them over dinner the next day. Its like a mental cleansing.You say you cycle a lot? so your very fit and well?
usually if your unhappy (depression, insomnia etc) the first thing any doctor tells you is to exercise, so if you do that often you have that covered.- i used to date a phychologist then we broke up and now she's dating another designer guy. if it's you... what up bro!zenmasterfoo
- scarabin0
i'm careless with money
i sometimes use people to feed my ego (but at least i'm aware of it now)
- scarabin0
i often start overly ambitious projects only to become distracted by another before finishing it
