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- ********0
- ernexbcn0
So the e-mail was for him but she sent it to you mistakenly? in any case that sounds weird, she's inviting the guy to sleep over, unless this guy is a really good friend and has done that before while you were there I would call her ASAP and question her about it.
- ********0
I feel the sleep over thing is key here....how far apart do you live? Has any of you "crashed" at eachothers place before?
- there's a good 1.5 hours between our houses, we've all crashed over beforeArvizu
- plash0
apparently Arvizu is 32 years old. so the marriage can't be too long.. (whaa 10 years at most?) too soon to be dealing with that bullshit.
- Arvizu0
actually I'm the guy who's wife is out of state. Sorry for the deception, but I'm actually the guy with the wife who is out of town. I received this email from a friend who is married to my other friend—who is out of town... I declined the invitation without sounding an alarm; but I don't know if I'm reading too much into this or not enough. In the end, I'm either being completely naive or ultimately narcissistic—either scenario worthy of being broadcast live. I wanted to reverse the roles in my post to see how it would impact my account of the matter and the reactions.
- scarabin0
yeah, and what about "stay home and cook and watch tv"
every man knows that's guy code for "fuck on my couch"
- capn_ron0
So now you're obligated to tell the other guy, right? either way, it was a come on for sure.
- If it was, then I am. I really just hate trusting my own assessment in these matters.Arvizu
- understandable. could you ask her? It would be strange, but probably make you feel better.capn_ron
- there's an adult thing to do. no wonder it didn't occur to me! That actually makes perfect sense. now, phrasing...Arvizu
- phrasing will be key in this one. good luck if it ever happens.capn_ron
- capn_ron0
Or you could just go over, give it to her and leave it at that.
- scarabin0
+1 for asking advice in the matter
- sleepyfatso0
tough call I'd say. I mean have you hung out with his wife on your won before? Had dinner or lunch or whatever just the 2 of you? I'd say to your buddy when he is back; " Oh hey, tell your wife thanks for the dinner offer on Saturday, I had other things on, but maybe we can all get together next weekend." Then see how he takes it...
- Knuckleberry0
okay.... if he is your neighbor why would he need to sleep over? He lives next door.
It should be nothing but that is weird.
- Sorry only read your first part.Knuckleberry
- they live about an hour and a half from us, sorry about the confusion, not neighbors... so then it's cool now?Arvizu
- ********0
play her off
- what does that mean?Arvizu
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- ********0
I would say go for it. If something happens, tape it and send it to your friend. If she doesnt do it with you, it would be with someone else.
- Or if something is close to happening, dont tape it and tell your friend********
- Or if something is close to happening, dont tape it and tell your friend
- ********0
yea, instal spy cams and post the result on here
- sublocked0
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- version30
be alone
realize the mistakes you made
deal with that by posting it on the board too.
keep a blog
we need entertained
- robco0
only one thing you can do - set up a hidden camera.
dont think of it as spying... more like educating yourself about a very important investment. i think if it was most people here, we'd be "mildly curious" and thats all i would call it, not an issue with trust....
....yet