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- MondoMorphic0
I think it's largely dependent on who you choose to marry, but what the hell do I know.
- ********0
I always see it like this...you fall in love, get married, gain 50lbs, stop having sex, get divorced.
- marcolalo0
small dick eh?
- ********0
by giving her just about everything she wants, all the time.
- plash0
clearly some marriages work and some don't. some people are built for it and others aren't. I'm divorced and it was a messy split. i don't regret the time we had. I do have to add that I'm not married now and i would take caution in doing it again. Yet I can't help think that calling people "suckers" or claiming you can't do it b/c of the monogamy is just plain weak. As in i you don't want to try anything at all because of a judgment or fear.. my two cents into it
- ecowatt0
i had 3 birds on the go....binned 1 of em last week(she was to firey-potential problem) so now i bang a 21 yr old and a 34 year old....variety is the spice of life in my opinion...avoid marriage for as long as you can...and children.
- andrewwwahlin0
i was divorced by 21.
- ouch. you ever going to do it again?********
- 21 is way to early to get married, let alone divorcedautoflavour
- ouch. you ever going to do it again?
- CyBrain0
Everyone's going to give you a different answer, as they should. In my case, I just married the best girl.
- arthur0
been with the same girl for 15 years. wouldn't trade a day of it.
- akoni0
I love my wife, only been married a few months, but been together for about 4 years i think... you have to be able to laugh at yourself... and accept when you are the idiot
- ********0
I was with an ex for 3 years. We ended up getting fat and stopped having sex. I just got sick of screwing her.
- So, you project your personal failings onto the rest of humanity.TheBIueOne
- MondoMorphic0
I got married when I was 21. I was a lonely Marine and had no idea who I was or what I wanted in another person. I knew there were incompatibilities, but I didn't realize how significant they would prove to me. After about 5 years, I realized it we weren't "right" for each other, but around then we had our son, and we continued in varying states of "happiness" for 7 more years, until it became apparent, beyond the shadow of a doubt, that we needed to split.
The proverbial straw that broke the camel's back was when I caught her having sex with another couple at my 34th birthday party. Good times.
What's really sad is that I just broke up with my girlfriend because we had a worse relationship than I had with my ex wife! And believe me, my ex wife didn't set the bar very high! hahaha
- pr20
Well, the way i see it it really depends on how you define love. If you define it as something passionate (as i do) then you have to expect for the fire to burn out at which point it's time to decide to find another girl or settle down. I'm 28 so in my view i'm too young to settle down so if the fire burns out (as it has a few times in the past) i move on.
I live my my brother and his wife so i see the ups and downs and i don't see any advantages to being married. That said though it's because she cleans the bathroom and keeps the kitchen clean too -- i'm pretty sure if it was only us, dudes, it would be one big mess.
- acescence0
so uber, tell me about your mother...
- MondoMorphic0
The only benefit of being married that I can see is if you want to have children. That's it.