Just Friends...I swear.
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- squire225
So today I broke off the "benefits" in hopes of keeping the "friend." Obviously she didn't see it that way and was "heartbroken."
Has my actions (not photoshop) mislead her? Maybe.
Was this day bound to happen?
Probably.These situations never pan out and somebody always gets hurt. True enough I feel like a creep, but I had somewhat of a reality check and decided today was the day. Plus, she knew the deal, I wasn't looking for the long-term...so that was her option to get the hell on.
Oh yeah, that reality check was...I wasn't feelin' the girl as much as I was into her earning potential. Every designer needs a corporate chick to buy you parts for your Mac.
That wasn't the righteous feeling to have. So Its over and I'm chillin' until I get my money right!
- CALLES0
".I wasn't feelin' the girl as much as I was into her earning potential."
what does that mean?
- TheBlueOne0
SO the cash flow came with the benefits part and not with the friend part? So that makes you a....what...man-ho?
- She wasn't paying my bills...but we ate good. and I make...decent...to...squire225
- ...shitty money... :(squire225
- Right. Man-Ho. Don't hide, be proud.TheBlueOne
- squire2250
lol
- Jaline0
She should've realized what she was getting into. And you are most definitely a man-whore.
- you've become so judgmental latelyPoint5
- stop judging her9832892398
- lvl_130
gold digger. cool.
- squire2250
Jaline, I didn't take advantage of the situation, but I gotta admit that the fact that she makes a lot of money made me comfortable in that position (no pun intended).
- madirish0
i have been the victim of this too...
- Point50
Don't sweat it. There's plenty of other rich chicks with benefits out there, as well as maybe that one broke chick that you'll probably marry.
Where's flavorful when you need him?
- flashbender0
That shit never lasts, she'll find a new man toy and forget all about you soon enough.
By the way, can I get her number?
- squire2250
I think I posted because it was on my mind, but also to see if it could be a character flaw of designers.
My last girlfriend came from this "situation" because it got a bit serious than just "friends w/benefits" and in hopes of preventing a similar situation, I cut it short because I knew it was for the wrong reasons.Sure, she's hurt, but as a man I had to take responsibility and control or she would've let this whole thing flow into far far away land.
- i wouldn't generalize on designers apart from defining them as "a group of people who frequently mispell".Corvo
- CALLES0
PICS?!?!?!?
- 98328923980
"Has my actions (not photoshop) mislead her? Maybe."
You are capitalizing (not typography) on your history (not photoshop), maybe you need more space (not whitespace), to read between the lines (not illustrator), to see what has distorted (not photoshop filter) or to dissolve (not photoshop`) the noise (not photoshop again) between the both of you. it takes more than a magic wand (not ps ffs) to merge the layers (not photoshop, nor illy) of friendship, love and sex into one canvas (not ps and ai again ffs) ...oh nevermind- < so not funny..piss off.9832892398
- Bullshit, that's funny.blaw
- I'm gonna agree... that's funnyjoyride
- flashbender0
pics?
(doesn't CALLES usually take care of that? Where the hell is he?)
- Bwaaaahahahahahahaha... you entered that as I was typing! 2:31 vs 2:32!flashbender
- CALLES WOULD HIT THAT!edd-e
- hahahah... probably would... but the pic thing is hillariousCALLES
- Jaline0
"Sure, she's hurt, but as a man I had to take responsibility and control or she would've let this whole thing flow into far far away lan"
*rolls eyes
- edd-e0
how old are you and her?
- kona0
1. i'm not that heartbroken.
2. i keep telling you. i'm not a chick.
3. i'm not sure i'll ever be a partner here.
4. buying you a new my little pony mouse is hardly considered buying you things for your mac.
5. you were a horrible kisser.
- flavorful0
I don't really get your post, but if you did things correctly you won't be friends for awhile, but then later you'll just be fuck friends which is all anyone wants anyway.
I'm sure you haven't done anything correctly though if she makes more money than you (and that bothers you - or - you don't know how to properly exploit her), and your over 30 and still don't have your money "right."