Gentlemen's Clubs
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- tavin0
yea...something about loud music, scandalous women and alot of alcohol in one shot...its just fun? i cant explain it.
- mrdobolina0
to be honest, I would rather go to seedier strip clubs, it is way more fun.
- Jaline0
Sometimes I learn things about Ram I'm not sure I wanted to know.
- mikotondria20
what wrong with you lot ?
Strip clubs are for sad sad people. Sad women who are selling their dignity for cash they either can't or won't earn some other way, and sad guys who could be spending their time trying to find a girl to do those things who actually wants to, but can't be bothered, spending money for 'da action' or what ever twatty word they jockishly give it.
By giving the women money to 'do the things' they do, the guys are admitting that the only power they have is what they can spend, and that they are entirely complicit in the women selling their dignity, and that it is a sane, ethical thing to do, which it is not. Imagine it's your mom, or sister, or girlfriend doing it, well sorry, if its not good enough for them, then its not good enough for anyone elses mom, sister or girlfriend, dont pass the moral buck just cause you dont these people.
Its a sad sad desperate exchange, however trendy and validated by celebrities or FHM-Kappa-Delta culchur it might be, don't come on this board talking about this shit as if it's alright, and signifying you're the big I-am cause you know, like, er, the best places, with the most 'talented' girls, and everything, and you're such a player 'gimme some!', and all that crap, and you cruise around to a shit-talking soundtrack, drinking over-priced gaso-piss out of a plastic cup with your collar popped and your shades on at 1am. You're a fucking idiot who thinks its either funny and smart to take part in the whole disrespect of women you dont know, and yourself, in which case you have an emotion age of about 14, or you have some serious maternal seperation anxiety and can only get close to women when you know they wont leave you.
I would say just fuck off, but I'd love you to show yourself up a bit more by trying to respond to this and justify your sorry ass.
Go..
- joyride0
lol... did they not let you dance for amature nite or somethin? That's a whole lot of hostility you got going on.
- mrdobolina0
just playing about the projection stuff, but dude it's just a titty club, not everyone is as uptight as you are about it.
da action? popped collars? sunglasses at 1am? these were all odd things you said, where the hell did that come from?
- BonSeff0
i go for the cheap t-bone lunches
- magicpatch0
For that sounds more gyrating than three gogos grinding groins to the greatest of one’s grip.
- Point50
I've known a lot of strippers and quite a few of them are humble, down to earth girls. Others, well, not so much. They're like everyone else, just doing a different job.
- mikotondria20
hahaha, yes, that is quite a hostile post, I suppose, it just makes me angry that it's become more and more accepted, little by little more and more people go to these places, more and more girls end up doing the job, and it's all wrong.
I recently became and parent, and boy, it really changes your outlook on things, about what's right and wrong - it scares the crap out of me seeing things like this expand apparantly unchecked - what sort of world will my little girl be inheriting from me in 20 years ? She'd be quite within her rights to look around and say 'jeez, dad, this is some dire shitting place you lot of given us, thanks a lot', so I'm afraid titty bars are one example of something I do not like, there's just so much else that everyone involved could be doing, it's a waste, of dignity, time, human potential and money.
And yes, I've also known a couple of strippers and they were really cool, it does take a lot of nerve to do their job, and I've absolutely no disrespect for anyone that does it.
Utter contempt for the job, sure, and I wish they all did something else, as, to a woman, they did.
The whole thing is just disrespectful for everyone involved, find something worthwhile to do with your time, be part of the solution.
And yeh, shades, popped collars and bullish 21 yr rich-jocks who nonce around and go these places really do piss me off.
- Jaline0
A lot of girls / women are attending these clubs now too. I went through a phase when I was interested in this stuff. Remember when I bought that stripper workout book? Still sitting on my shelf, and I hardly used it. A person's interaction with these clubs seems interesting, but there are a lot of social questions not being addressed.
- BonSeff0
some people are way more comfortable with their sexuality than you are.
i'd rather see degenerates in the strip club where it's legal,
then the moral right and their fucked up sexuality molesting kids in their rectory..
besides, it's our duty to help put these girls through college
- mrdobolina0
aint nothing wrong with a titty club.
- Jaline0
Are you talking to miko?
- Ramanisky20
Sometimes I learn things about Ram I'm not sure I wanted to know.
Jaline
(Oct 8 07, 18:57)what can I say ... I was lonely, horny, and single
and did I mention extremely intoxicated
- mikotondria20
'some people are way more comfortable with their sexuality than you are.'
You don't know the first thing about me, mate - it's very easy to make a soundbyte judgment about someone rather than actually engaging in a debate on ethics.
Try again.I could respond in kind by saying 'some people are more willing to think about things rather than cruise along with the currently accepted version of why it is important to behave with respect.'
True, fuck the extreme right evangelical judeo-christian repression, that too is entirely abominably amoral, for similar reasons - an exchange of sexual priveledge for power, coerced, forced, whatever. Whenever this exchange goes on, people suffer, now or 20 years down the line.
"i'd rather see degenerates in the strip club where it's legal"...I understand your point here, but as someone who upholds this 'legal' framework, by paying taxes and behaving proactively and responsibly, Im not willing to take part in this nasty little charade by legitamising it.
You go ahead and bring up a daughter, and then see how happy you are about her doing this job to put herself through college...its no more immoral just because you dont know or love the people doing, that is mental compartmentalisation which is an essential part of letting someone else do your thinking for you about someone else, and Iwould cite the holocaust as the more extreme outcome of this. Read some Robert Anton Wilson.
- mrdobolina0
the holocaust comes up in a conversation about strip clubs?
c'mon dude, lighten the F up.
- BonSeff0
ok, "mate"
I could say you don't know the first thing about the girls working in these clubs, and their reasons for doing it.
and debate on ethics?
ethics is completely subjective and a would be pointless arguement.
If you want to be a captain save-a-ho, go right ahead.raise your daughter anyway you see fit.
i could care less. mate.
- BaskerviIle0
Not sure where I stand on this, people are free to do what they want and that goes for customers and the workers.
but mitokondria you just envoked Godwin's law:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/God…
oh dear, you lose