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- grunttt0
sorry mrd. =(
and blaw, my god I'm so sorry. there is a special bond between brothers. I know it must be a tough thing to deal with. i wish peace for you and your family.i've lost a few to suicide over the years and it can only be described as a heartbreaking mindfuck. my dad found his best friend moments after he shot himself. there was still gunsmoke in the air. an old skate board buddy killed himself under a bridge just down the street from his house. About 3 years ago a guy that i had hung out with for a time when i was about 14-15 (he even went on a beach trip with me and my family) waited for his ex-girlfriend outside of her classroom at a local community college. when she came out he put a gun to her head and dragged her out of the building (in front of everybody), accross the parking lot and into the woods where he killed her and then shot himself. Fucking crazy.
- kelpie0
that's embra for you, kon...
sorry to hear about this both you folks, sad stuff; you have my sympathies
- phatlee0
My brother committed suicide 10yrs ago, I know exactly what your going through.
- vespa0
so sorry to hear you guys have had such terrible loss. people are so fragile...
- barbtastic0
i understand how you feel and how she felt... i'm sorry you lost a friend, but sorrier she felt that desperate
- ********0
let's not forget the fact to be free from everlasting pain and agony. people can not see what goes on inside someones head and the horrors it may bring.
the ones committing suicide often needed a lot of guts to do it, yet, it was the only way.
even though they hurt other people badly.
it's the lack of guts to leave others in pain that kept me alive i guess. i can't get it over my heart to transport my pain to others, because essentially that is what you do. sounds a bit spiritual, but that is what it is, as i see it.
- MrD0
thx
i dont know what to think
when i tell someone, they just say i am sorry.
so i stopped telling people when people ask me whats wrong.
i dont know, i wanna hear something alittle more than "i am sorry"
i feel weird. i keep going back to her facebook page.... weird...
hmmm
- ********0
move on man.
eventually people will move on and so will you. no worries.
i don't know what to say though, i am sort of on the other side and i still have very strong suicidal feelings. fortunately i have very few people caring for me so i probably don't hurt too many people with it.
- -sputnik-0
i'm sorry for anyone here who's had to go through a loved one going out like that :(
blaw, i'm so sorry about your brother. i hope that knowing your NT friends are here for you is of some comfort. hugs to you my friend.
- TenaciousG0
I spent of lot of time in school talking people out of it, so I know where you're coming from.
God bless you all.
- ********0
I' m upset by what you say, Janne, and will refuse to move on
- phatlee0
Geeze Crouwel, stop getting those thoughts out of your head and start to think positve and begin to realise that you're not on your own. I only wish my brother came to talk to me but I guess he'd already made his mind up.
- phatlee0
'start'
- lowimpakt0
a friend of mine killed himself almost exactly one year after his dad killed himself. almost too much to bear.
more people die through suicide each year than all wars combined.
- phatlee0
The past four generations in my family there has always been three brothers. The strangest thing is one brother from each genration killed himself when they were 30 'ish, inlcuding my brother ten years ago.
- vespa0
that's awful phatlee.
is it something your family talks about?
crouwel if you feel like that you need to seek professional counselling. newstoday isn't the place.
- phatlee0
We do talk about it, and its really weird. Thats why if I'm ever lucky enough to have children I don't want three, I'll be happy with two.
We don't have a clue why it happens, its very sad.
- pascii0
i'm worried about my little sister... since 5 yrs now : ( but at the moment, she's stable
- vespa0
i wonder whether it's like how in the uk they won't publicise suicide in the media because once there is a visible predecessor it makes the idea seem more reasonable.
i'm very sorry for your loss phatlee it must be awful. may you have a happy family in positive memory of your bro.
- phatlee0
Aww... thanks vespa what a lovely thing to say.