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- walkman0
just the opportunity I've been waiting for!
weeeeee....
:-D
- harlequino0
It's bullshit. I have some friends who are part of "the life." No one would EVER just admit a stranger, let alone a potentially single stranger, into their community.
- walkman0
hahahaha!
harlequino, that's good.
- mrdobolina0
a friend huh harlequino?
- harlequino0
Yeah, funny this comes up actually.
My producing partner and I are trying to finish this screenplay that takes place within a swingers community in Boston. I'm in the process of interviewing some of them for more accurate background and stuff. It's really interesting how structured many of the swinger's groups are. They're like bowling leagues.Except with fucking.
- mrdobolina0
Balling Leagues...
- harlequino0
The Toy Scouts
- jox0
So does it cost money for you and your significant other to attend one of these, uh parties? Do they charge by the hour?
- mrdobolina0
I would imagine these swingers are all horrible looking, huh?
- harlequino0
Depends on where, and what kind of community. There are clubs dedicated to this lifestyle, so yeah, it costs you. But there are stingent rules.
Smaller parties are like any other party. But the rules and boundaries of how that particular community works apply. You generally don't just show up and grab someone else's wife like caveman and off you go.
- harlequino0
I would imagine these swingers are all horrible looking, huh?
mrdobolina
(Apr 11 07, 12:01)Uh, no not always . You'd be surprised actually. The one I am working with is younger and average age is more around 30. The older you go and less metropolitan, the stranger it might get.
I.e, 55 year olds in West Virginia.
- jox0
Do you have to mingle first? Isn't that awkward? What if whatever couple you've eyed out doesn't wanna?
- harlequino0
As I understand it, jox-
Yes, there is usually lots of mingling. Couples usually pre-decide how they want to do things. In a well-run setting, there are established social guidelines for approaching other people, etc.
But everyplace can be a little different.
- walkman0
is there a score card?
like in bowling?
- mattyd040
where are the mandingos hanging out during all of this?
- aktive0
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mrdobolina
(Apr 11 07, 11:48)Do they offer a relocation package?
- jox0
I'm fascinated by this thing. I think because that sort of thing is so.... private.
I can't imagine how someone can switch just like that. One minute you're a dentist, the next you're grabbing the missus for a little mingling. Next thing you know, chumpchops from new hampshire is getting it on with her.
- harlequino0
is there a score card?
like in bowling?
walkman
(Apr 11 07, 12:07)Haha, sort of, in a way yes.
Different couples look for different things. Like some may want another short term couple to get to gether with for a while. Others limit their swing time to a particular party. It varies.
- jox0
I suppose the concept of jealousy don't apply to the swinger type.
- walkman0
I agree with jox.
it's so strange. sometimes I think I'd rather a secretive affair.
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