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- nLHb0
lol @ grunttt!
- robotron3k0
yes eddie, you're right. I think all those things are true, I think I'm nice to her and she's also treats me well, it's a very recipricol thing but I thought, rather than wait to get married, why not get married sooner and have a small ceremony instead of some giant monstrosity of a wedding, so I was trying to see if anybody had anymore insite into that neitherworld...
- flavorful0
That may have been the greatest compliment I have ever received.
- chossy0
I believe you should ask her if you love her let your love shine like say a one penny piece thats been rubbed with tomato sauce (ketchup) that sucker shines like fuck, also I believe the children are the future.
- Jaline0
if yr asking us, the answer is no
barbtastic
(Mar 14 07, 10:40)exactly.
- version30
statistically, no
mans decision to spend one another's lives together does not need justified by religious ceremony
- e-pill0
dino if she says yes ill get you a very nice amount of the strongest and most potentest buds i can get.
:)
- Jaline0
harlequino is on point today!
lvl_13
(Mar 14 07, 10:52)he's always on point, haha.
- k0na_an0k0
get married?
-- If she's the last thing on your mind when you go to bed at night, and the first when you wake in the morning yes.I've never been married before and I think it's time for me... what are the benefits?
-- All that little crap you worried and fought over for goes away. The little things seem to get easier. The whole things seems to get easier.do you score big on gifts and cash from the friends and family?
-- Kind of. For the wedding shower everyone went nuts. We had 60+ items on our registry and we got all but one... a Dyson vacuum (mumbling to self) cheap mother fu...-- Be careful though with the wedding. We went all out and only made a small amount of money from the wedding. But our reception hall cost a friggin arm and a leg.
what about taxes? I've heard you can make a bundle
-- I'll let you know after I file this weekend, but yeah I've heard you get a cut.... do people still make sex after marriage?
-- So far so good. :)give me some advice, I'm curious to know...
-- Advice? If you do get married you must know the wedding day really isn't for you, it's for your family and moms and pops but try your best to make it all about you. No hurry to get married after you get engaged. A year+ engagement is ok. Don't rush into things. You'd better love her Mother-in-law cause after the engagement, she's going to be a HUGE part of the wedding process.Above all else. Be happy and enjoy growing old with her.
- -sputnik-0
robo...i can highly recommend the tiny wedding. some ppl want the big beautiful one, which is awesome if that's your thing, but a small one can be so nice. you really get to absorb and enjoy what the marriage and ceremony is about w/out worrying about dresses, bows, and who's fighting w/whom.
- Jaline0
You'd better love her Mother-in-law cause after the engagement, she's going to be a HUGE part of the wedding process.
k0na_an0k
(Mar 14 07, 11:41)shit!
- e-pill0
dino dont listen to NT girls..do it!!! do it for the weed!!!
:)
- flavorful0
You'd better love her Mother-in-law cause after the engagement, she's going to be a HUGE part of the wedding process.
k0na_an0k
(Mar 14 07, 11:41)shit!
Jaline
(Mar 14 07, 11:43)I think that kOna is talking from a man’s perspective, as in teh woman’s mother, because I don’t see any guy’s mother getting all ga-ga over a wedding to be honest.
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And to be honest, I know you know that is what he meant, haha.
- Jaline0
I meant that I don't want my mom controlling anything...
but it's inevitable :(
- OSFA0
... do people still make sex after marriage?
-- Hell Yeah! last night I met Bruno at the club and he rocked my world! -oh! you mean with the wife? uuhhmmm....ohmagawwwd and last week I hooked up with Big Mike......
k0na_an0k
(Mar 14 07, 11:41)
- Jaline0
for instance, I would like to have a much smaller wedding than what some of my family members may want (just to one-up each other), but I'll figure out all that stuff when the times comes. Not for a while.
- exador10
i think kona has the best advice so far..
couldn't agree more.the first year or so is tough and interesting, if you aren't living together now that is...
learning each others idiosyncracies (funny little ways) can be fun but also a headache...after the first year, things get much better, you develop a groove, you know each other really truly well...
i married an east indian girl, so there was no choice for me but to have a big wedding..fortunately, her parents helped out...so we didn't go totally broke..
and we made about 10 grand in wedding presents (cash) plus a lot of just regular presents from the registry...kitchen stuff, etc...kona's right tho...only do it if this THE one...like, you go to bed thinking about her, wake up doing the same...he couldn't have been more right about that..
and also he's dead on about the inlaws...'specially the mother in law....
best hope you love em dearly, cuz you TRULY marry the family...and during the wedding planning, her mom is gonna be very VERY involved..'s a good thing i totally love my inlaws, like, as much as my own folks....
i've known some guys that can't stand theirs, and i can't imagine how ackward and rought that must get...if you love her, marry her dude
:)
- OSFA0
are u waiting til gay marriage is legalized Jaline?
- gramme0
snicker @ "pretty loyal"
- flavorful0
I’d like to have a smaller wedding, but the amount of people I know and that are in my family kind of makes that impossible.
Or entirely probably as there is no way I could invite so many people.
My friend is getting married later this year and he is doing the small wedding thing, and then later having a reception with other folk.
That seems nice.