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- zhead0
i always come here but i just never signed up becuase i never need to really post anything but this is pretty needy
- ********0
i always come here but i just never signed up becuase i never need to really post anything but this is pretty needy
zhead
(Jan 19 06, 12:54)alrighty, lurkers hateth me
*backs out of thread....
- gruntt0
well then here is my advice.
if she won't talk, walk.
- davi-t0
Maybe she just needs to dike it out. Be gay for a day. Might be a good thing for you. Maybe she's tired of dick and just needs a lick. Ask her if she'd like to hang out with you and your 'new' friend.
Please send pics. Thanx.
- Jaline0
Maybe she just needs to dike it out. Be gay for a day. Might be a good thing for you. Maybe she's tired of dick and just needs a lick. Ask her if she'd like to hang out with you and your 'new' friend.
Please send pics. Thanx.
davi-t
(Jan 19 06, 12:56)wtf? hahahaha
- mg330
i think you meant to post here: www.ym.com
tell derek we said hey.
gruntt
(Jan 19 06, 12:34)
--------------------------------...Speaking of http://www.derekblais.com/
he's got to be up for the "Most Changes Made To A Splash Page" award by now, right?Had a look there the other day to see if anything was new and it was another new splash page!
- cinder0
Personally, f a girl avoids personal contact and prefers phonecalls over hanging out in person or prefers text messages to phonecalls - that's a big signal to me that there are some big issues.
If she's not willing to adjust her tendencies to what I would consider normalcy - get out.
This is gonna sound a little bad, but if she's 29 and is attempting to relate to someone 5 years younger than her and can't even manage that . . .
well, it just doesn't sound very healthy to meThere are people who are hurting and there are people who are hurting that push boundaries so much so that they hurt other people.
- Jaline0
By the way, she'll be turning 30 soon, which may make things worse. I still say you should talk to her, and if she doesn't say anything meaningful, just leave.
- Gucci0
i really enjoy the "surfstyle' type he's got going on over there.
those jackets were really popular back in the 90s.
*cough
oh. relationships... right.....
i'd say she's either raggin and needs some space, OR she's bi-polar.
end of story.
- ********0
biological clock, wondering if you are the one to bear her child?
- zhead0
i know theres some issue going on but i dont know what. what would make her perfer to talk on the phone but not in person. wouldnt she just cut off contact all together
- tkmeister0
maybe simply you just don't know what women want.
it's okay. you'll learn one day, young one.
- gruntt0
go ahead and get it in your mind that you're going to break up with her - then we can really give you some advice. it'll be great. but ya got to hurry and do it before valentine's day.
- _salisae_0
she enjoys your friendship but isn't sexually attracted to you.
- Gucci0
better to just ask than to put your incessant rambling to task on her.
honestly, if you're afraid if you ask her she'll leave, then you've got bigger problems than strangers on the internet can help you with.talk to her, talk to a friend that knows your situation....
or fuck it all, eat a bean burritto, go over to her place and say all suave-like "i just ate a bean burritto, let's get it on."
- tkmeister0
she wants to get married, but she thinks you are not a marrying type so good bye. maybe?
- zhead0
its the kid thing mayhbe, she has a little kid but i dont think she even wants me to hang around him
- Kirshar0
not there in person, but still wanting to communicate..........
is there, maybe, something or someone she doesn't want you to see? sorry, dont want to jump to conclusions about it.......
- gruntt0
maybe she got drunk and cheated on you and someone wrote "enter here" on her forehead with and arrow pointing at her mouth with a permanent marker and she doesn't want to see you in person until she gets that marker washed off.
just a guess.
- zhead0
it could be that, but im not sure but i would think she would want to hang out somewhere besides her house in that case but she just talks on the phone, fuck maybe she just needs space for a little