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- zhead
what the hell is up with girls these days. i dont understand them at all. i think my gf is starting to get tired of me and it sucks and so when i try to not call her she still calls everynight, but when i ask her to hang out she doesnt want to , what the hell does that mean, does she still like me or not? or just need space but wants to talk? my minds going nuts
- mrdobolina0
I went through this a few years back.
In my situation, what she really wanted was for me to pursue her.
- gruntt0
i think you meant to post here: http://www.ym.com/
tell derek we said hey.
- ********0
1. How old are you?
2. How old is she?answer those and maybe we can help you.
- ********0
- ********0
i think you meant to post here: www.ym.com
tell derek we said hey.
gruntt
(Jan 19 06, 12:34)+1
kOna
(Jan 19 06, 12:35)HAHAH
- ********0
is she into leather...?
- Jaline0
Maybe she's moody and/or indecisive. But, like Jaz said, you should probably give us some more information before we can help you.
And I realize most guys think the words 'she' and 'moody' are inseparable...
- zhead0
24 and 29, yea the age is little wierd but i dont think it matters. but if she wanted to pursue wouldnt she want to hang out. we havent broken up but it doesnt seem like were technically together either
- gruntt0
you may simply stink.
- dirtydesign0
Did you try asking her what is going on? If she noticed a change in the relationship?
Talking about things usually works.
- ********0
24 and 29, she's probably a bit bit immature maybe.
- del_razor0
instead of trying to figure her out.. (first problem)
just plainly ask her..
what do you need from me? I don't want things to fall apart between you and I and i'm willing to do whatever it takes to build your faith in this relationship...this statement alone shows her that #1 you aren't trying to play games and #2 you are commited to the relationship enough that you want to hear her side of things..
she'll respect your honesty and bluntness, and this will open things up for conversation..
if she doesn't.. then she's just playing games.. and you shouldn't be with her in the first place ;)
- ********0
you may simply stink.
gruntt
(Jan 19 06, 12:44)hahaha :O
- ********0
dr. phil once said 'slap some sense into dat ho'
i really don't agree with that. i'd use a closed fist if it were me.
- zhead0
actually shes older but sometimes acts more immature. everytime i want to talk she doesnt want to or puts it off. it could be i stink but i dont think thats the whole reason. and yeah she is indecisive and moody but how the hell am i suppose to read that all the time and know if she wants to break up, need space or just in a mood swing
- Jaline0
Oooooooooooooooooooooo....She's at her sexual peak.
I see.
- Jaline0
I really think the best thing would be to talk about it with her. I know everyone says it, but how else are you going to know anything?
- dirtydesign0
Sounds like a headache. I can't put up with that nonsense.
- zhead0
i agree talking is the best, but i cant realy talk when someone doesnt wanna talk or listen. relationships always cmoe to some point liek this
- gruntt0
zhead - are you an nt regular that signed up with an alias to ask this question or is this the neediest first post ever?