I'm fuking lost..
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- nomis
So its Sunday, I'm writing a 5000 word research report for a project thats worth 20% of my degree, I was to send it to my project partner yesterday morning, I have to have an outline of my Thesis done for tomorrow, I also have to have concept sketches done for an idea we don't yet have, I inexplicably lost it with my band mates at rehearsals yesterday 3 days before we play our biggest gig ever to a room full of record label A+R men, I turned down a lovely girl last week cause my best friend loves her and now I'm posting it all on a message board, on a Sunday afternoon.. How did this happen? I'm fuking lost..
- Jaline0
calm down, take breaks in between each project, and maybe take breaks in between those breaks, and get to work!
- spongebob0
you only need 50% to pass right?
in that case, don't worry.
and for the chick, there'd always be lovely ones who come along, but not everyone can be your best pal.
- tkmeister0
life goes on, mate.
this too shall pass.
- nomis0
I actually only need 40%, but unfortunately I'm a self deprecating perfectionist, hence nothing but a 1st (70%+) will do.. Self inflcted I know..
You're right though I'm glad I didn't do anything with that girl, I like my mate..
Don't you ever wonder how you just ended up in the position you're in sometimes? And not in a silly little teenage way, I'm talking about inexplicable complete headfucking type of way..
- Jaline0
Maybe you should talk to your friend about the girl too.
Two years ago one of my good friends liked this guy, who liked my best friend. So we were out in Quebec in the mountains for the March (Spring) Break, and he asked my best friend out. It was a good time to ask, since my other friend, who liked him, wasn't able to come along on the trip.
Anyway, their friendship came to a bad turn for a few months, but eventually the friend who initially liked the guy got over it. She never really made any moves either, so she couldn't expect the guy to know that she liked him. And the guy obviously liked my best friend more than my other friend, who (bear with me here), he just thought of as a friend, not a love interest.
My best friend and the guy are still together right now, and are strong. I'm convinced they'll get married in a few years.
My point is, you never know what's going to happen, so you have to decide about if you're going to risk your friendship by going out with her, or risk your love life by not. I totally respect your decision, but you should probably still talk to him about the situation.
- Jaline0
and for the chick, there'd always be lovely ones who come along, but not everyone can be your best pal.
spongebob
(Oct 16 05, 07:34)see, i agree with that too...I guess I've just known so many people where it doesn't work out when the girl likes you better than she likes your friend.
- 5timuli0
I'm going to fuck off into the hills and live in a cave, eat bugs and brew my own beer from the undergrowth. That way I won't have to deal with work, women or any other shit that only brings you down. Pretty good solution, eh?
- Jaline0
Sounds good.
- inhaler0
wow. seems like things Are going for YOU! Keep it up, and yes, the secret is to keep breathing... The girl must've been something else, or else it wouldnt be important to mention.... but yea, others will come.
Good luck to you eh!
- JazX0
sounds like you're SOL
sorry dude, be more careful
- bartosz0
it's tough, but you gotta keep your chin up. and as hard as it is, you have to be positive or life will drive you nuts. things will work themselves out in the most right way as long as you're true to yourself and your friends and family. they're the things you should worry about... and it sounds like you have good friends that are worth more to you than a lot of things.
good luck with your school stuff... i understand where you're coming from with the perrfectionist speak.
you sound like a smart guy. everything will unfold for you soon enough. and it will be good. don't stress so much.