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- PonyBoy
the other day I posted a thread entitled 'ex living hell' where I spoke about my ex-employer's absolute rage for my very soul.
I recorded some of his voicemails to me... you can listen to them at the bottom of this post. I've editted and removed any names but mine (kevin) so as not to harm anyone else.
as the story goes - he got arrested AGAIN for another domestic situation - and I mentioned it to an ex fellow employee who is also my 'buddy'... who in turn used it to his advantage w/out a second thought and tried to take away even more business from his ex employer. Bear in mind I say 'take away more' because this ex employee already has this client - he just wants to remove his old boss from the client's picture all-together.
Anyway - the ex-boss (insane man... nutty -read the other thread) threatened to go after one of MY clients (who also happens to be his client) w/some hurtful info about me...
(this client asked me to do work for them - w/out letting my ex employer know. They came to me. I told them that in fairness to my ex boss that I needed to let him know that I'd be working for them. They understood and we smoothed it all out... they were just sick of him - and are through w/him for the most part)
... and he did. His intent was solely to destroy my credibility w/information that isn't his to provide.
His arrest IS public information - so I don't feel so guilty for mentioning that he got arrested.
Do I have something on this guy? Should I get a restraining order? (i know he carries a gun... i know he harrasses his ex wife who has a restraining order against him) Is this defamation of me?
ugh... listen to his messages - he's threatening to defame me - then... he actually followed through with it... but the client told him to basically take a hike.
- uberdesigner0
After listening to the message and reading the part " His arrest IS public information - so I don't feel so guilty for mentioning that he got arrested."...
It sounds like you started blabbing about him to mutual clients and he's pissed off. I would be pissed off too. You're lucky if he doesn't return the favor or sue you. You sound like a real shit head. It's a small world and karma's a bitch.
- chz0
just curious... how old are you?
- PonyBoy0
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uber... I didn't say SHIT to any of his clients.
The one person who I mentioned to he got arrested to is a FELLOW EX EMPLOYEE who dealt w/this guy's insane shit for a few years... someone I shoot the shit with about 'old times' etc. I had no malicious intent what-so-ever.
This guy's employees BAIL HIM OUT OF JAIL ON A REGULAR BASIS...
... now he's attacking me because I told someone he got arrested.
somehow - I feel like I'm being fucked here... I have no malicious intent towards this guy... I'M SCARED OF HIM.
- PonyBoy0
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i see looking for advise here was a huge mistake.
i've given you the real story... and i'm ridiculed etc... I'm not a malicious person. This guy is - he's gone so far as to 'joke' about hiring hitmen and shit while flashing a gun around.
- uberdesigner0
ah, if that's the case then call him up and say "yeah I told so and so, so what?" If he goes insane and threatens you, challenge him to a fight. Make sure that he knows you'll hit back, unlike his wife.
- uberdesigner0
to be honest, I'd like you more on nt if you left out "Enter response:" every time you post; it's poor ettiquette.
- PonyBoy0
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self-control doesn't seem to be a personal strength of mine.
- chz0
"i've given you the real story... and i'm ridiculed etc... I'm not a malicious person. This guy is - he's gone so far as to 'joke' about hiring hitmen and shit while flashing a gun around.
PonyBoy
(Sep 13 05, 19:31)"If this is true then you should be calling the police and dealing with it that way... what do you plan to achieve here? You come off as if its all a big joke (this post and the previous ones) and posting a taped conversation with him just proves it.
Sounds like you asked for all this drama.
- horton0
nah man... buddy sounds like an agro asshole. i'd be recording those msgs too if they were left on my machine... might just be legal evidence one day.
btw.. i played these recordings and watched your reel at the same time and happened upon something; the rants and beeps lay over the jazzy beats real nice :P
- PonyBoy0
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... and if Karma truley is a bitch... his life is fucked...
... i'm that confident about this shit.
- GrammaSeff0
sack up and deal with this.
posting the call is pretty lowrent.
- PonyBoy0
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chz... i'm 29 to answer you question. The drama lies in this man... his life is never-ending drama that seems to follow his employees.
There's not one person who left the company that isn't in some sort of fear.
You're right - it's not really that funny... my 'haha' is one of sarcasm I suppose.
I asked for advise. I don't know if I want to contact the police or an attorney or what. There's a number of people that this all can effect in the end... and I just want to be left out once and for all...
... this shit just doesn't stop... this is one of many many occurances...
... as far as posting this... maybe it's a bad idea... i'll probably dump the mp3... it's just a crazy set of messages that i fealt i had to share.
- IRNlun60
"His intent was solely to destroy my credibility w/information that isn't his to provide..."
- PonyBoysounds like he's got some dirt on you too...what, is it a third testicle or something?
- chz0
if you want it to stop then you should begin by not posting about it and stirring the pot with your buddies... just move on and let it be... just forget about it.
if you really have to then change your phone number and move if its that serious.
- PonyBoy0
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chz... i fealt there was some entertainment value in the messages... so I shared.
- uberdesigner0
nah, you just sort of came of as a bit of a spaz who cares way too much about shit
- BuddhaHat0
hopefully one day this arsehole you speak of will threaten someone else who's carrying a weapon, and we'll have two less idiots in this world...
until then, the less said the better... or it could just be me being grumpy, cos i couldn't get the mp3 to work :P
- PonyBoy0
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uber - this crap that happens with this guy is just too hard NOT to share... I need to learn self-control in matters such as this.
- BuddhaHat0
Surely there's thousands of people out there more worthy of your time than that turd...
I asked a mate of my dad for some advice once about something that was really stressing me out, and he said 'Oi! will you be stressing about it in 12 months?'
I said 'No....'
He replied 'Well then fuckin' forget about it, and get on with your life, you've got too much other shit to do'.great advice.