emotionally unavailable
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- peteski0
if I care less,
I have the control.
(I never care less)
- CaP0
the answer is that there is no answer, stop thinking things are defined in relationships. they aren't.
JazX
(Aug 29 05, 10:19)++++++
well said, man... that's so, so true.
did you learn that in africa? ;P
- visualplane0
lol, Jazx and Africa
- tkmeister0
he's life principle is based on his experience in Africa, right?
- spongebob0
reminds me of the show "Interpreter"
- spendogg0
Our fast food culture has conditioned us to get what we want right now - then wait a few minutes for an upgrade - the new and improved is just around the corner. It leaks into every aspect of life. At some poiint everyone has to take a step back and realize what is important to them. Relationships takes a lot of work and people seem to be busy with other things - look in the mirror and tell yourself how you want to be treated, then do on to others.
- Crouwel0
hey as long as they are still physically available i don't see a problem here.
jk.
- Crouwel0
going dutch on a relationship in any way will be the dealth of it. going dutch emotionally is a big red flag -- RUN.
shellie
(Aug 29 05, 10:04)hater!
well i am not exactly waiting for an american girl either, just so you know it!!
- spongebob0
hahahaa
- kveldulfr_fou0
As humans women are very insecure compared men. All woman are after in men is that male warm glow, the feeling of a wall. They want to be the choosen one
- Rand0
I'm here. I care. I am insane.
- spongebob0
why would they want to be in your BO?
- tkmeister0
spendog, i think you are right on.
this fast culture, get what you want when you want... it's making it harder for us to wait and build a meaningful relationship.
- shellie0
shellie, i'm pretty sure there's no grey area in commitment. by definition you either are or you aren't.
if the other partner isn't willing to commit, why the fuck would you want to commit to them?
scarabin
(Aug 29 05, 10:13)why are you arguing with me? I never go half way emotionally or any other way in a relationship.
but i know a lot of people who do, chronically.
- spendogg0
Yeah tk - it helps when both parties are at an age where they can grow together, professionally and emotionally - otherwise you end up with a bunch of 30 somethings trying to hook up at a bar, and hoping they can fit a relationship into their crazy lives.
- shellie0
hater!
well i am not exactly waiting for an american girl either, just so you know it!!
Crouwel
(Aug 29 05, 10:32)oh yall funny dutchies :D i hate not :D :D
- JazX0
going dutch on a relationship in any way will be the dealth of it. going dutch emotionally is a big red flag -- RUN.
shellie
(Aug 29 05, 10:04)hater!
well i am not exactly waiting for an american girl either, just so you know it!!
Crouwel
(Aug 29 05, 10:32)HAHHAHA Lekker moi pos!
- shellie0
I TOLD YOU. you're only supposed to hit where it doesnt show!
- tkmeister0
unfortunately, i live in the city where people just do grow up...
also, there are so many gold diggers. i am like... you can dig, but you aren't gonna get shit from me.