emotionally unavailable
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- visualplane0
Women come and go, I just focus on my carear.
- shellie0
well, i can't blame them. i was emotionally unavailable for a long time.
no wonder they have this attitude, if you commit, i will too.
tkmeister
(Aug 29 05, 09:41)going dutch on a relationship in any way will be the dealth of it. going dutch emotionally is a big red flag -- RUN.
- spongebob0
so you've not met any females besides your mum and your house dog?
spongebob
(Aug 29 05, 09:45)Im so sorry Im making you look stupid, i ment "I've met many women who couldnt resist my flattery and charm..."
Uhmm, anything you want to add, spongebob?
kveldulfr_fou
(Aug 29 05, 09:52)You know... some men have surgery and call themselves women. Do you mean you are magnetic to that kind of "women"?
- JazX0
maybe you're just growing emotionally unattractive
scarabin
(Aug 29 05, 09:33)lol, or just plain unattractive maybe?
- scarabin0
going dutch on a relationship in any way will be the dealth of it. going dutch emotionally is a big red flag -- RUN.
shellie
(Aug 29 05, 10:04)so you're saying relationships should not be based on both partners putting something into it.
that's just retarded.
- shellie0
my apologies to anyone dutch :D
- JazX0
That's a Dutch Uncle statement
- shellie0
so you're saying relationships should not be based on both partners putting something into it.
that's just retarded.
scarabin
(Aug 29 05, 10:09)no... i mean only going half way.
"i'll commit if you do. I'll love you if you love me"
There's no such thing has half assed in a successful happy relationship.
- uberdesigner0
this all started with women's suffrage
- visualplane0
so you've not met any females besides your mum and your house dog?
spongebob
(Aug 29 05, 09:45)Im so sorry Im making you look stupid, i ment "I've met many women who couldnt resist my flattery and charm..."
Uhmm, anything you want to add, spongebob?
kveldulfr_fou
(Aug 29 05, 09:52)You know... some men have surgery and call themselves women. Do you mean you are magnetic to that kind of "women"?
spongebob
(Aug 29 05, 10:08)Sex change operations freak me out. It's like playing Frankenstein with a penile inversion technique.
- JazX0
and Bowie
- scarabin0
so you're saying relationships should not be based on both partners putting something into it.
that's just retarded.
scarabin
(Aug 29 05, 10:09)no... i mean only going half way.
"i'll commit if you do. I'll love you if you love me"
There's no such thing has half assed in a successful happy relationship.
shellie
(Aug 29 05, 10:10)shellie, i'm pretty sure there's no grey area in commitment. by definition you either are or you aren't.
if the other partner isn't willing to commit, why the fuck would you want to commit to them?
- visualplane0
It seems like woman reflect the man.
- tkmeister0
last time i let myself fall, my ex pretty much said i don't fit into her future plan.
does love come with a future plan ever?
- anzelina0
in every relationship, one party always loves the other person more than the other person loves them.
- JazX0
the answer is that there is no answer, stop thinking things are defined in relationships. they aren't.
- scarabin0
i've noticed that too, anzelina
- tkmeister0
is it so hard to let it go and fall?
what are we afraid of?
- visualplane0
afraid of getting hurt
- spongebob0
when we hold on we are afraid we are missing out.
when we let go we are afraid we are letting go of something we might not come across again.