i've lost it...
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- Jaline0
This is usually how it works - everything hits at once.
TheTick
(Jul 26 05, 08:49)True. Good luck :)
- tkmeister0
so what happened? did everything go okay?
- tkmeister0
when you talk to your boss tomorrow, just mention something about your shrink. if they think you are so stressed out and seeing a shrink, they may be more understanding.
- brandelec0
"damn baby, i should get in trouble more often damn!"
- todelete__20
i like where your head is at.
GOGOGO!
- dijitaq0
if i have a drink and go to his house i'd probably be hitting on his hot wife hehe.
- todelete__20
hmm....
here is what you do. get a bottle of jack daniels, drink it while thinking of what you're going to say.
then, after a few hours go to his house and ring his doorbell. he'll be very happy to see you. take the bottle of jack for good measure.
- dijitaq0
i'd like to call now that my head is much clearer.
one minor problem, it's 11 at night where i live. hehe
- todelete__20
don't wait any longer. call your boss. don't give him time to ponder the situation of you leaving at get more and more pissed, cause then he may fire your ass just out of spite.
call him asap and explain what happened. you may have to tell a little white lie. i.e. something like 'you mom called and said he may be sick so you lost it and had to leave the office'
right now you need the job. stop fucking around and call him before he gets really pissed.
- dijitaq0
Enter response:also probably not the best time to be making a big change (your job)
TaraTara
(Jul 26 05, 09:01)just a backup plan in case the company decides to fire me.
- cruz_azul0
""Cruz, he apparently lives in Indonesia, don't think they have MediCade there.
Mimio ""EEEEP!
- Tara0
also probably not the best time to be making a big change (your job)
- cruz_azul0
yea , basically the good old Shark way .. like selling cars!
but really, What has worked for me is walking into a place that could benefit from the work I do, and present them something they will want and need ...everyone needs advertisment no matter what form it is !! U CAN DO IT!!
- Engage_London0
I'm sure you won't get fired... unless of course you're an ambulance driver or something... just explain to them that you didn't know what to do... so thought the best thing was to get out of everyones way...
everyone has a blip now and then.
- Mimio0
Cruz, he apparently lives in Indonesia, don't think they have MediCade there.
- dijitaq0
thanks for the support everyone.
i'm gonna talk to my boss tomorrow. wasn't thinking clearly this afternoon.
i probably should have a bakup plan though just in case. would like to go freelance for the time being. work at my own pace. but i'm not much of a sales person and i don't have a big network.
any suggestions?? i mean how do you approach a potential client??
- lando0
Call your boss and let him know the score (or as much of it as you want to tell him) and ask for a bit of time off. Relax. See what happens from there. Dont stress over shit that might or might not happen, just try and be prepared... good luck!
- cruz_azul0
yea call work, if they give u the boot, milk them for unemplyment then get on medicade ... let uncle sucker take care of you and yours .. and remember someone always has it worst then you somewhere ....
- Salli0
Sorry to hear that mate, just keep in there, things will fall in place for sure. Best of luck!
- jah_0
get a hold of yourself. go back and talk with your boss and explain what happened and/or make a lamme excuse 'my cat died and i had to go'.
just get a grip on yourself. i had to pay my dad's heart cirgury about 2 years ago and at the same time i broke up with my girlfriend. 2 months later i left my job. spent on year trying to find myself. and do you know what? i've been always here. i'm working now, been to a lot of trouble (again) in the last month, but i'm still here.
just try to stop and breathe in. just take care of things as they come and don't spend every minute thinking about them. it doesn't get you anywhere.
try to get a grip on your worst thoughts. and try to take one thing at a time, even if it seems that everything is coming at the same time.
stay cool and RELAX. most of our life is utter shit. so when you get a good moment, you'll lear to treasure it better.
J