tomkat is very sad.
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- ********0
hey, wait-- I'm probably as old as that guy
- tomkat0
I'm 27, he's mid50
- Mo20
people suck. what's the deal with people treating a relationship like a job. they've already (mentally/emotionally) left the company and are looking for new work at a different company. But, they don't bother to tell the boss until they can swing like a monkey on to the next branch. some people are too comfortable. don't worry, kat, one day the branch will break.
- IRNlun60
thats sucks man.
if I could offer any advice would be to try and move on because you really don't want to get depressed. i'm speaking from personal experience because i didn't get over it and it took me years to get my life back together. if i had any regrets in life it would be beating myself up over a fucked relationship.
best of luck tomkat.
- Jaline0
that sucks so much, buddy :(
- tomkat0
its not like that, trust me. she's been very honest with me.
but I get the point and I hate that with a vengeance, too
- tomkat0
mo2 i meant, and thx again everybody.
I hope I can concentrate on working the next days, but I'm not too positive about that
- ********0
*hands tomkat giant bag of weeds
- scarabin0
well the worst thing you can do is sit around the house
all you'll think about is her
go out and have fun
stay busy
smoke a j
but whatever you do, don't sit around with your thoughts
- unfittoprint0
think_ : what will thomas think in 3 months? what will thomas think in 6 months? what will thomas think in 1 year?
start_: listen to a lot of Naked City or Painkiller.
and_: stay away from The Smiths.
be_: strong.
- tomkat0
thx so much guys.. really
i havent given up hope though. i just can't
- vburo0
somehow i was reminded of this:
- ********0
i was immediately reminded of this:
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0376…
- lifeinbinary0
i was reminded of this:
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0095…
- toe_knee0
reminded me of this
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0142…
"Hey, you just made the biggest mistake of your life, baby. I know you're gonna be missing me when ya got that big, white, wrinkly body on top of ya, with his loose skin and...old balls! Gross!"
- tomkat0
I very much neeed 2 sleep now. I will keep you updated. thx all very very much. you are lovely and showed me that this place is much better than I thought it is the last weeks
I am not giving this up yet.
- ********0
*initiates group hug
- tuig0
ow man i'm so sorry....
- ********0
it's good to talk about it, but you shouldn't hang around in here too much looking for help.
it might help you now, but you should look for someone you can talk too, face to face.so call up a good friend and tell him to pick you up and six-pack on the way. the faster you get it out of your system, the faster you will get over her. and that is the first thing you need to do. otherwise you will go nuts.
she is not coming back, and if she did, it would never be the same and you will end up break apart again, so don't even try going there
just hang in there, it's a long and hard road you have to walk.
- vburo0
*joins hug
goodnight tomkat.
coming summer we will have a party here, regardless...
see you then!