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- fadeproof
...so about a week ago I get a call from this chick I knew from highschool - shes was in my part of Brooklyn visiting friends last week, as she lives on Long Island- soooo dam beautiful, but also, importantly, kool as hell - we hung out Thurs. Fri. and Sat. night last week, a great time for the first time seeing her in many years - we're both 26 now. Shes kinda touchy feely, here and there, and will sometimes get close up at me, and pull that "looking-at-your-mouth-when-you... shit to get you all excited but then she kinda pulls back a bit; I'm following her lead for now, because I wouldn't wanna ruin anything if shes not down with me like that- but she text messages me all the time at all hours - so I ask you fellow NTers - does she sound like she just wants a nice friendship?, anything more than that?, or am I just losing my fucking mind?:)
- -leah-0
make your move now, before it's too late! if you wait too long you will end up friends.
- dippy0
Danger Will Robinson!
- pascii0
marry her
- Spix0
a friend had simualr expreience..but when he try to make a move she said, she was just looking for a friend...poor sucker.
- fadeproof0
Spix thats exactly one of my nightmare scenarios - cause once that shit is outta the box, it is always there on her mind - fuck!
- dippy0
The question is not what does she want. The question is, what do YOU want? Don't let her manipulate you emotionally, man.
- lhd0
Something may have happend to her recently in her life and she just needs a change right now... don't go crazy going after her.. keep things the same as they have been.. definately don't get too close to her.. its too soon. Patience on both your ends are wise.
clink'
- fadeproof0
I hear you dippy - I guess I just have this idea in my head, you know, high school girl, known her forever, blah blah blah - I dont think shes manipulative, she MAY be coming off all flirty and not even know it, just being friendly - supposed to see her this weekend - guess I'll play it kool, 1 step at a time :)
- fadeproof0
thats a good scenario lhd, patience never hurt anyone :)
- lhd0
you got it faceproof. When I started dating my current gf.. we didn't get serious for awhile - because we both wanted to see if it was right. Plus you can still have a great time without labeling eachother. Take it slow -- she seems like a great girl and if she thinks your a great guy then she'll recipricate your actions.
- MX_OnD0
shy kiddies get nae sweeties.
- carver0
huh, i know what ya mean, i remember i was in a similar situation right, all that looking at my mouth thing,i mean, i been told by many girls, i'm a good looking bloke, huh, even a couple of men said i got a nice mouth an that.benders. anyway, christ it got that bad i was just squeezing past her when she was making tea and that, just so my sort of...eh...le cock sportif area could be pressed against her whapper! it ended in tears tho', ah made a beeline for her at a party when i split up with the wife, bounded after her into the bogs like a fucking bull mastiff on heat and tried to rip off her uniform!!!! i got told to take four week off work then, i just could take it any more i had to give it a try, you, she was leading me a merry merry dance. i was up on juvenile panel for a similar thing when was 14...guess ya just don't lose the crafty moves eh...daft eh???
- rabattski0
dude, stop torturing yourself and just ask her. than at least you know what's going on instead of this vague yes/no/maybe shit. it's not that timing has any influence on her mind, she's not gonna say: no, i just want to be your friend, if you would have asked me next week i'd say differently. know what i mean?
- sureshot0
just nibble her ear and you be aight!
- JG_LB0
i'm in the same shit right now man... don't push anything and just let the friendship progress. worst thing you can do is say i love oyu or something ridiculous like that. you may be diggin this chick highly but treat her as she treats you and talk a lot. hug and hold hands and shit? little shit like that can define a relationship
- rabattski0
omg dude. you *don't* have to say you love her. you just want to know where you stand / want to know where this whole thing is going. it's that easy. just talk to her about it. she prolly want to know as well and prolly doesn't dare to ask for the same obvious reasons you have.
- tkmeister0
the mystery is killing you, eh? enjoy it... when you still have it.
i'd say go along with her for a bit, but not for too long. i've learned my lesson. good looking girls have plenty of options. if you let them wait too long, they find something else.
- rabattski0
life is way too short for this kind of soapesque teeny bop shit.
- gruntt0
she wants you like a fat kid wants cake.
- MX_OnD0
fuck sake I thocht we were backward in Scotland, no at all by the look o' it.
GIE HER A WEE KISS!
See how she kisses ye back.
wurks wi' sheep, wurks wi burds.