Can't get over her
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- GreedoLives0
on a serious note...you're gonna have to learn to flirt again...so get out there, try chatting people up. and go to places where you can actually talk (art openings etc), not booming bass bars.
i came off a 4 year relationship once...took me about six months before i could even think about going after anyone.
- ibye0
I went on a handful of dates, usually I am an ace, but I'd say 1 of them was good. I am not looking for a girlfriend, aka someone special. I want to enjoy being single like I used to. Tihs is the first time I have been unhappy being single.
- DutchBoy0
ah fuck that.
i have been thru a million cases like that.
once you will become just as cynical as i am and do nothing else anymore than posting on silly imageboards.
:/
(i feel for ya tho.. not much.. but still a bit..)
- Hans0
g
- heavyarms0
Stay tuned I'm going to post a thread for you.
- DutchBoy0
i meant MESSAGEboard..
been digging too much for animated gifs tonight hahaha!
oh well.. i should go to bed now..
laterz!!!
- ********0
been there.. ohh have i been there.. dated a girl who i was sure was the one, right up until the day i pretty much caught her cheating on me. believe me, it was more than a peck on the cheek. a lota lota more. that hurt was hard core..
you heal though. you really do. but really i hope i never have to go through that again.
do this and you're gold. get fit, get out and drop a G on a new garb with suggestions from some rediculous NT post like *best jeans* or some shit like that (cause there's some seriously stylin peops in here), get out, work lots, and stay busy.
when you think you want to call her - don't. just don't. that is the worst thing you're ever going to do.
oh yeah, and kill all the nudie pics.. those are going to be the death of you..
beleive me, having any kind of reminder of the "intimate moments" is going to just drive you insane.
you'll be alright. you'll screw a lot of girls, meet a lot of duds, then one day you'll find one that just fits.. it's going to be a good day for ya. hang in there it'll come.
luckily for me, my new chick is WAY hotter, fitter bod, smarter, much cooler, has style, and is going to be successful... wtf was i thinking? hells yes, good things do happen.
- ibye0
Thanks polar all good words.
Except there aren't many girls who are fitter smarter cooler than my ex. She had a sick body. and a
fashionista. It would be easier if she were a troll
- GreedoLives0
ibye we're gonna need proof on that.
- ibye0
You'll just have to trust me. I'm not saying she's Gisselle, but she is one of the hot girls in any bar in the city. She's a totally gym rat and was a swimmer in highschool.
- DutchBoy0
Except there aren't many girls who are fitter smarter cooler than my ex. She had a sick body. and a
fashionista. It would be easier if she were a troll
ibye
(nov 18 04, 20:24)
--------------------------ok i am going to be serious with ya now.. i have been in bed with photomodel and at first you think it is all about that.. you follow your dick without even knowing..
then after a longer while away from her you will realize it was not about that and you will DEFINITLY (altho you just refuse to believe me now, jsut as i refused to take my friends words for it..) find other qualities in your next gf.. and in hindsight you will never understand what you saw in the 'hott' one in the first place...........
it's jsut the course of life..!
- ********0
you always make the one your with to be a god. it's why you choose to be with her. my ex was a stellar in practically every way - until i lost my goggles. you'll finally see her dark side and her imperfections and the things that make her less desireable - and a big one being loyal.
you'll gain a lot of comfort once you see this ugliness in her. no looking back eh? it's all good from here on in.. just a different road...
- heavyarms0
Yeah, at least post some pics with clothes on, shit. I'll be the judge.
- ibye0
I got ya. Attraction is tricky. We were very hot for eachother, it was very physical and I did think in the earlier stages, I don't love her, i love her ass. And I did love her ass, but I fell in love with her too, and in the end, it was more the person than the body that I loved.
But I still dream about the body.
- heavyarms0
Believe it or not this has been helpful. Not only he sincere responses, but the wise ass one s too.
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Thanks, I appreiciate it. Glad I could help. I figured this thread would at least make you laugh a bit and hopefully cheer you up and take your mind off shit.
- DutchBoy0
one day you'll find she has a great character:
!!!
- heavyarms0
until i lost my goggles. you'll finally see her dark side and her imperfections and the things that make her less desireable
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Are you talking about 'Beer Goggles'?
- ********0
try to find a girl you like for her personality, not just body, then you will find her ass 10 times nicer that your ex's gymfit ass...
- toe-knee0
bullshit
- DutchBoy0
yeah ofcourse it is all bullshit toeknee but we are trying to comfort this dude for a bit now..
please cooperate..