How to deal with...
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- jg_2
...long distance relationships?
She is my girl since more than 2 years. we were separate for 6 months. we lived together 1,5 year. we have again a long distance between us . and it will last, at least, almost one more year.
she in germany. me in spain.
we love each other, but this situation is killing me. and i am thinking about a friendly SPLIT, but.....
ok. another boring thread.
soooooooooorry
- Tyrone0
It will never work out. Take out your sorrows on some other chick and move on. She's doing it with some other dude right now.
- jg_20
hehe. so fun.
- swollenelbow0
get over it, go out with somebody else...
- monkeyshine0
oh its killing me. I can't stand to be apart from my girlfriend cause I love her so much...so I think I'll leave.
That is convoluted logic.
- Bio0
why can't you be together?
what holds you in your places?
work? school? family?
there are ways around each of these things if you really want to get around them.
my belgian sweety comes to be with me in 17 days. holy shit. i have to clean up my place!
:D
- jg_20
congratulations Bio!
will she stay with you, or is just a visit?we cant be together for some reasons: work and school. she is finishing school and i have a new job in my favourite design estudio.
so we have to wait. i was working in germany, but it didnt work out. germany was going down (i mean getting a design-related job)
- phatlee0
I'm in a long distance relationship and I've known her for ten years and I've been seeing her for a year. Its extremely difficult, but I'm making plans to be with her full-time as I'm unhappy with my job and need a fresh start. We have a 3hr train journey between us, its not fantastic but it better than being in different countries. My advice is either one of you make the commitment and move, or forget it all together cos to be honest I think that distance is too much, especially when one of you could move. You both need to decide just how serious you both are.........
I'm beginning to sound like a chick so I'll stop......hehehe...whatever happens I hope your both happy!
- jg_20
thx phatlee.
we have already lived together, and we plan to come back together, but not now. we have to wait until january next year.
and i am so tired....
- phatlee0
It can be a strain.....if its meant to be it will work out. The secret is total honesty and 110% commitment. Neither of you can get lazy, if that happens then it won't work. Just move......lifes too short!
- Nac0
I agree with phatlee, without any total commitment, honesty, trust, and willingness to take calculated risks it will never work. Distance is hard, but can also be a good thing. It shows how much you care in a way, and helps you to appreciate someone. But yes life is short, go do something about it.
- Bio0
hmmmmm...
i'm gonna have to sound a bit girlie for a minute too.
if you reaaaaally want to be together, one of you WILL have to sacrifice something.
either you gotta start looking for jobs near her or she needs to take her school credits and see if she can transfer.
if neither of you are willing to sacrifice, then it will be a long long long year of waiting and wondering if the other is faithful or has found another love. that isn't to say that it wouldnt work. it might. but a year is a long time to wait.i dont mean that to sound harsh. it is just the way that things look from where i am standing.
my chicky comes to live with me for 3 months. if she isn't dead tired of my awful jokes by the end of that, then i hope to move back to belgium with her. she gave up everything to come to me. and in a few months, i will probably giv eup everything to be with her.
- k0na_an0k0
masterbate.
nail random slutz.
internet porn.
beer.
more beer.
that should cure you up.
- jg_20
:) nice story, Bio. I wish you luck. it will be hard (you know, from a long-distance relationship to living together), but it will be paradise. believe me...
i gave up everything for her (job, family, friends, personal stuff), but i was unlucky in her country. so she is going to try it now.
now is just a question of time, but sometimes patience.......argh.
- meok0
Wow Bio, Thats beautiful. All the best buddy, dont forget to bring some of that wood with you. Gawd it smelled good.
- Bio0
word julio!
patience is not a human virtue generally. but it is possible. so i will partially quote mr. kOna now:
"internet porn. beer. more beer."
pretty soon a year will have passed and you'll be ready for the good life. whatever ya do, best of luck to ya man!!!heeey hey hey loc!
hehehe i already have a stockpile of the stuff to take. :D
glad you enjoyed it!
- jg_20
thanx again Bio, you rule mate
(and so does Messugah!!);)
- christoff0
i say waste the bitch.
- idsgn0
get over it, go out with somebody else...
swollenelbownice, waynes world
i just did the friendly split because of long distance. sucks but its the right decision