love through cpu
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- swollenelbow
alright, so here is the scoop.
I've been talking to this girl for about 5 months now, we've recently started talking on the phone and wanting to visit eachother. i've never seen her in person. i think the question is what do you guys know about these type of situations, and about age, she's 31, and i'm 23.
she's too cool tho..confusingly yours.
swollen.
- k0na_an0k0
girls in their 30s tend to be awesome in bed. i'd arrange an encounter. hubba hubba.
- Bio0
could lead to something wonderful... or could be a disasterous situation involving a sweaty 300lb man with a girly voice and a craving for sweet sweet anal man-flesh.
but i say go for it.. . cuz ya just never know.
oh, and i wouldnt worry about the whole age thing.
- robotron3k0
sounds interesting, you have seen what she looks like yes? 5 months is a long time, how come you wait soo long?
- Gorbie0
Girls like us younger boys cause we're simple minded, and don't like complicated stuff.
- swollenelbow0
i've gone through this before, and i struck gold, meeting and going out with a irish korean girl like 6 years ago.
this girl works in the same office that i do but in florida...which is cool because we can talk all day but...
200$ to fly to florida or send jet blue to get her up here to NYC would be worht it.
- zenfulbeauty0
k0na's right! I know...i'm 31...woohoo!! :)
- swollenelbow0
HOT DOG!
that's it...jet blue it is!!
- robotron3k0
so when's the encounter going to take place???? the suspense is killing me!!
- k0na_an0k0
zen you don't look a day over 25. nice.
- swollenelbow0
it's killin me worse!!
hopefully within the next month or two...
it's also tough to work out because if anyone would visit the whole office would find out sorta. i'm sure we'd want to spend time with eachtoher so we would both end up not working those days...
dangit!
- robotron3k0
you've obviously seen pics of each other, have you expressed any admiration or is it a more lustful curiosity?
- zenfulbeauty0
thank you k0na...most days i don't feel a day over 25 either!
And, i think you should go for it Swollen. Hope it all works out! :)
- o0o0
I met my wife in person.. My job sent me to Atlanta for two weeks, she was working there..
then the next two years of our relationship was email/im/phone calls, and $200 plane ticket every couple of months. The expense was a pain, but otherwise it was really cool. Seeing each other every 2 months was fun, much more fun than if we had been together all the time.
The curious thing is that now, although we live together, we often communicate better by email or im.
- Kierce0
.JPGs are worth more than a thousand words. be careful, they can be deceiving. If they're peeking around a corner, they're probably hiding a gigantic ass.
just an observation.
- swollenelbow0
you guys are gonna be surprised but i really still don't know what she looks like.
i have to do this now...we don't talk about that sort of thing tho, but i do know it's important.
- k0na_an0k0
in fairy tales looks aren't everything, but this is the really real world. you have to get her to send some recent photos. believe me.... i can tell you from experience the online dating/meeting people is a tricky thing. the last time i met someone online she was sending me photos of her 3 years ago... when we met she was a BIT different.
falling for someone mentally rocks but the physical aspect has to be there for the whole thing to work ya know.
- swollenelbow0
bump.
damn. bad news on the homefront. one of the co workers swears he thought he heard this girl was like "cute" but she probably has a big ass.
WHAT DO I DO!?!?
- mrdobolina0
depends, some peeps prefer a big ol' ass
- robotron3k0
mrdoblina is right, ass size is relative to many factors, including outside weather conditions... are you afraid to ask her for her photo, or is your relationship still in a plutonic phone state?
- shellie0
meet her on a friend basis and take it from there. have a good time and hang out and tell her before you go to visit that you guys can take it to the next level if both are ready. that way you have an easy out if things dont look like they'll click.
but also hammer out what you both want from this relationship if it did happen. like... if youre exacting just some good sex and a good time and she's expecting to find someone she can marry.. you might not be on the same page.
i remember having an ecrush. i still think the boy is superduper hot.. but after 6 years of knowing him we still havent met. he lives in philly. i had an open ended ticket once and i was philly for a layover. i very much considered missing my flight for a few days and hanging out with him, but i didnt call. oh well. now i have a beautiful boyfriend and im happy. but i wonder from time to time what it would have been like if i would have hung out with my ecrush years ago.