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- mitsu0
when you put your avg girl in a situation where she has several guys to choose from, and given the fact that many guys out there are controlled by their penis, the girl will typically go for the most the biggest challenge... the one guy who could care less about her.
there's more gratification for a girl in having someone with confidence who isn't needy...
again... the dominant role is prominent one...
- Creon0
then i will be alone forever it seems.....
- Mal0
wow the shitty advice in here is amazing.
- LastOne0
yea, shitty advice isn't hard to come by Mal. but thanks for the effort. i could never treat a woman like a slut or a whore. my father treated my mother like that for years, then started the physical abuse, now after several hospital stays and advice from her family she's leaving him at 61 years old.
that will never be my life.
- Mal0
Good for you last one, stick to your guns. be respectful, do what your insinct tells you. I have more respect for an painful truth than an easy lie.
People say good guys come last but at least the girls get to come first(nudge nudge).respect.
- mitsu0
"i could never treat a woman like a slut or a whore"
there's a huge difference between *not being needy and treating someone in the afformentioned manner. if you treat a woman like a slut or whore, you should have your ass beaten.
also, it should be noted, that this little 'hard to get game', if played at all, is usually just run through a few cycles to hold a females attention... long enough to let them see you're a great guy, that is. after that, the facades are thrown away and you really find out how compatible you are.
- brooke0
Her turn-around is amazing. Enjoy it. Second chances are rare. Good for you.
- LastOne0
thank you brooke =)
mitsu, i catch your drift. you're right.
i just couldn't treat anyone badly period. it takes a lot for me to get so angry that i have to mistreat someone man or woman. i dont have time to waste being angry, bitter or resentful.
relationships are tough. theyre almost business relationships, there is constant work and movement involved. any bad move may ruin what may turn out to be a great deal.
i hear you
- Troyy0
Hey, I can't really imagine myself in a scenario where a parent would treat another like that... Whats you're relationship like with your father like after what has happened?
- LastOne0
troy, it wasnt easy. i used to try to defend my mother all of the time. she never let him get close to me and my brother. she was an art teacher, i could never believe she allowed the abuse. life was hard to say the least. when my brother and i got older and he put her in the hospital again, my brother and i kicked his ass and sent him to the emergency room! and i haven't talked to him since. my mother is now leaving, she is going to live with my aunt (her sister). after all of the damage has been done.
so yes, that is my sappy little story. grusome as it is, i lived it. i for some reason ended up somewhat sane.
- mayo0
Thank you for sharing your story LastOne. It's not easy "disowning" a family member, especially a parent. I feel ya.
- sherman0
get out of there man!!!
- unknown0
Darn dude, it take guts to make this public on NT dude, I wonder if anyone from here meet you a your girlfriend, nice comments. I've always said it, a man that talks about the intimacy of her girlfriend is not a man , sorry to say that dude, but it's the truth!
:)
- unknown0
LastOne,
The complete story about men just wanting sex is a female fabrication. Men are much more emotional and sensitive then women. It's what's inside the heart that matters, and 95% of women have no heart. They do and say things always with a plan and self interest. Don't get me wrong there are women out there with soul but they are very rare and the thing is, they have self confidence problems or something else. But as soon as they solve their self-confidence problems they become like every other woman. That's why they do all kinds of things like breast implants and shit. That's why men with strong self-confidence get the chicks, they are stronger. To get back to your situation, you said it yourself that she didn't care before, and when you dumped her she came back. They never change man. As soon as you start showing your feelings again she will go back to what it was before.
My advice, get over her and establish yourself. As soon as you show that you can have any other girl, she will be in your corner waking you up every morning with those excellent bj.
Btw, NEVER trust a word that she says. It might sound bitter from my part, but it is a sad truth. Women always say what suits THEM best. Seen it and experienced it too many times.
- unknown0
Oh and my post doesn't mean that men and women can't be friends. I was refering to relationships.
- Redmond0
Don't worry, we won't share this info you just posted publicly with your girlfriend...
- LastOne0
i'll talk about anything anywhere. i see it this way, everyone has problems. yes, some may have more difficult issues and some may not, but we still all have troubles. we all need a bit of advice at times, so why not? why not here? i've gotten a ton of good advice, cheers and encouragement. thank you all.
=)
- unknown0
It's quite interesting how they haven't removed this thread yet. I guess only certain people are allowed to get as explicit as they want. But thats hypocrisy. Amazing...
- Sapphire0
bdsm?
- LastOne0
i am special?