Relationship Advice
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and 70's baby brought up a really good point.
we as men sometimes feel like there isn't a problem with working 24/7. even when we have girlfriends and wives. our logic is "hey, i'm trying to get US financially stable or i'm working so much so that i'll be able to be financially stable when we decide to get married, etc."
but, all those hours of work are extended at a HUGE COST. the neglect of your loved ones. you have to attain a certain balance. you need to do things well paced an evenly.
all of that full time work is costing you your girl...which is supposedly who you're striving for aside from yourself.
NOTHING IN LIFE IS FREE.
you neglect a girl enough, she'll leave. there are plenty of men out there looking for a good girl. if you have one (even though she may be a little needy) keep her. she loves you.
ive come to the conclusion that girls, more then anything, need attention. they need that more then money, independence, new clothes, etc.
all they need is compliments, hugs, kisses, and you whispering "i love you" in her ear when you're out in public. and don't forget to tell her how beautiful she is. remember, they're giving up all of the compliments, dates, phone calls, and the swarm of guys waiting to be with her, for you. you're her sole source of security. she no longer pays attention to that occasional compliment from her coworker of "damn girl you're looking hella good today, let me buy you lunch" now, she depends on you for that stuff. you're all that matters.
dude, there is so much that you have to keep present when dealing with your girl, but above everything. make her feel special and she'll be yours forever. and plus, she deserves it. if you make her feel special she will ALWAYS do the same for you.