Break ups
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I just went through a break up about a month ago with my first/only love. We had been together for nearly four years, and living apart finally ended it. From reading your thoughts I can tell that you are having an extremely hard time thinking about other things. Your life is still depended on her. Over the next few weeks you will find that you are the true master of your own world and that nobody, not even this woman, can change that.
I can’t tell you how important it is to start living for yourself. Take all the advice you have found here and run with it. Stop thinking about getting back with her and try to focus on filling your life with something new. You will be surprised how much effort you will throw into a new hobby.
Trust me if she has made up her mind to not be with you, than any form of you trying to work things out now will only hurt your chances. Stop worrying about what’s going to happen when your 30. Start worrying about what’s going to happen tomorrow. The only way you’re going to get over this is to try to make yourself better where you are now. There is no use changing your life for a woman that doesn’t want to be with you. Change your life for yourself.
Oh and whenever you need to, come here and all of us will be happy to talk.
Sorry if it sounds blunt or harsh, but trust me, now’s the time to start living for yourself and no one else!