Break ups
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- agent0range0
About one year ago, my girlfriend of 3 years left me because she and my best friend (since childhood) had been messing around. behind my back
I was devestated. But I was also left in a pickle where I had no more friends...the three of us were close...
What I'm trying to say in a round about sort of way, is that the idea of closure can weigh very heavily in your mind, but don't comprimise your emotional stability for the sake of winning back your ex. I wish I had been stronger and just put her out of sight and mind, rather than continually making a fool of myself trying to win her back.
I know it's hard to let go, but as cliché as it sounds, it's the best thing you can do for yourself.
I live on a small island, and I see my ex and my ex bestfirned together almost everywhere I go...it's still hard, but my happiness is not attached to them in any way.